I really appreciate you sharing your thoughts from a Black perspective. I think it's important for AsAms to acknowledge how the Asian gender divide isn't just an intra-community issue that only affects us, but also affects the Black community & other groups of color. Thread: 1/
It's important to hold Asian men & other MOC accountable for patriarchal misogyny, but not via rhetoric that invites racist white men to weaponize that accountability & justify their violence against MOC. Same thing with critiquing racist women—it should be done w/o misogyny. 2/
Unfortunately, that's not the current mainstream approach. When Asian men’s misogyny is discussed, it’s frequently blamed on Asianness & not manhood. This gives white men a safe space to reinforce racism against MOC. Here's a recent example. 3/
CW: Anti-Asian & Anti-Black racism
When I posted my comic Reconciliasian encouraging Asian men & women to reflect on toxic, bigoted behavior towards each other & do better, I wasn't entirely surprised by the backlash. What did surprise me is how many Asians in power enabled slander and harassment towards me. 4/
But from this I learned that complicit Asians leverage anti-Asian rhetoric like this precisely because white supremacy wants them to. They are given media power so their message is the one that dominates AsAm spaces. 5/
At this point I'm not sure the term internalized racism is sufficient in holding complicit Asians accountable because it implies the only victim is themselves. The fact is every person of color is taught to hate themselves & that hate affects others. 6/
Overall, complicit Asians want to validate their violent mindset & keep their position as tokenized gatekeepers. But unfortunately for them COVID anti-racism was a wake-up call for AsAms. Asian America is ready to grow & these "leaders" aren't. They profit from the status quo. 7/
I want to add that the harassment I received didn't only come from Asian women. The issue gets boiled down to a "men's side" & "women's side" but it's really about extremists who make excuses for either patriarchy or white supremacy. I block bigoted AsAms regardless of gender. 8/
Ending on a personal note, I’m really sorry you’ve had to deal with cyberbullying and having your photos reposted and features mocked. It’s a deeply painful experience, particularly for POC, and I don’t wish it on anyone. Thank you for being so supportive, I appreciate it. 9/9
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Thread: In 2018, I made a comic addressing racism & misogyny in AsAm spaces & asked AsAm men & women to not participate in toxic, bigoted behavior towards each other. Since then, Jenn Fang (Reappropriate) has enabled harassment towards me & helped slander me as an "MRAsian." 1/
I don't allow reposts of my comics in part because it's a frequent strategy of Nazis to warp the messaging that implicates them & instead slander me. So to see fellow AsAms do it is disgusting. Yet that's what Jenn Fang & her harasser friends did to my comic Reconciliasian. 2/
I made a sincere effort to tackle a complex, painful topic to encourage empathy & maturity. Jenn Fang & Heath Wong didn't reciprocate that sincerity. They reposted my comic & left out its full analysis—which is disingenuous at best & malicious at worst. 3/
For AsAms who feel inclined to defend Roslyn Talusan from white people, she was a primary participant in inciting a harassment campaign against me for making AsAm comics. She helped sabotage my Mulan essay, only to later publish her own on the same topic (and get paid for it). 1/
So not only did she help spread slander against me in order to permanently destroy my career and make sure no one in marginalized spaces would platform me, but she financially benefited from the harm she caused. The irony is she said a Filipino shouldn't write about Mulan. 2/
I also had to turn down an offer of rep from a literary agent because of a connection with her. I honestly don't know the full extent of how many resources & opportunities I lost because of her & her toxic harasser friends, but even with the ones I can identify, it's a lot. 3/
#APAHM Thread: #StopAsianHate is meaningless until we acknowledge white men as the architects of anti-Asian racism, & the blueprints they use to divide the Asian community & sabotage progress. 1/
Understanding anti-Asian racism means connecting its history in the US with its history in Asia, instead of treating them separately. US imperialism, war, & colonization abroad directly informs the racism AsAms experience because the goal is the same: divide, conquer, & kill. 2/
White men used war to split Korea & Vietnam in two, & divide AsAms the same way. One blueprint of the U.S.'s domestic anti-Asian strategy is the Mixed Marriage Policy of 1942-1943. Implemented during Japanese Internment, it gave certain Asians special exemptions to leave camp. 3/
Before this, I grew up in a loosely Catholic upbringing and rarely went to church. But after my dad left the U.S. Navy and our family, we moved back to the U.S. and lived with cousins who were Mormons. There, we were regularly visited by missionaries, and eventually converted. 2/
Much like being a Navy brat, converting was less of a choice & more of a package family deal. I just went along with it to make everyone happy. But what I didn't know was that going from kind-of-Catholic to Mormon was stepping out of the kiddie pool & going in the deep end. 3/
Thread: For Fil-Ams & other people of color, the "American Dream" often means toiling away just to obtain a small piece of the spoils that were violently ripped away from your community. 1/
Second-gen AsAms like me grow up oblivious about our own histories because the US education system purposely withholds info about it, & our parents try to outrun their trauma by never sharing their experiences, instead pushing their children toward an assimilation sleepwalk. 2/
AsAms realize too late we've inherited a deal with the devil we never agreed to: we can keep our language, but only if we speak it privately. Our food, if we serve it. Our culture, if it upholds the illusion of America as a benevolent melting pot that saved us from ourselves. 3/
For some, this spike in anti-Asian racism comes as a surprise or seems like it's the first time it's happening. But that's because the Model Minority Myth—created by white people—tricked both white people and POC into thinking Asianness is a privilege. 2/
But history shows what America really thinks. The Page Act of 1875 legally codified Asian women as immoral, disease-carrying prostitutes in order to ban them from the US & extended that ban to Asian men with the Chinese Exclusion Act of 1882. These sentiments have never left. 3/