By DM, wants to be anonymous:

"I think I'd prefer to stay anonymous on this one as I still feel a huge amount of guilt for not doing more to help the woman I mention below. I was just so scared at the time and they said one of them was a policeman." 1/ #STFUSaturday
"I phoned up a couple of days later to ask the police what the outcome had been but they said the notes hadn't been written up. I always wondered what happened as I never saw the lady and her family again and they only lived down the road." 2/ #STFUSaturday
"In May 2019 I heard screaming outside my house in the middle of the night so I went to find out what it was. When I got to the other end of the road I found 2 men pinning down a black women and there were 2 other women with them." 3/ #STFUSaturday
"I think it's important to mention she was black as I don't think this would have happened had she been white. This was in Portsmouth. The woman lived across the road from them and her mother was frantically on the phone to someone trying to get help." 4/ #STFUSaturday
"The woman's small child was watching from across the road in his little romper suit. I ask the men what they're doing and one said he was a policeman and the other guy said that he was just helping him and they have this woman on the pavement in a headlock." #STFUSaturday 5/
"There was no proof that the man was a policeman as he was in plain clothes and offered no ID. I didn't really know what to do so I called the police and said these guys have this woman in a headlock and they're saying they're the police." 6/ #STFUSaturday
"All this time they still had her in a head lock. I see that her small child is very freaked out and watching at the side of the road so I ran over and hugged him and asked if he was OK. He said 'I want my mummy, I'm worried about my mummy'." 7/ #STFUSaturday
"I just told him 'Don't worry, she's ok. I'm on the phone and the police will come soon,' which is probably, now in hindsight, the most stupid thing that I could have said. I should've got the men off her but they said one of them was a policeman." 8/ #STFUSaturday
"They were so aggressive I didn't know how to get between them and the woman. Eventually they did let her sit up on the curb. She must have been known to them because they lived on the same street. I went over and knocked on the door to speak to the woman's mum." 9/ #STFUSaturday
"She was on the phone trying to get help. I told her that I'd called the police. And as I'm talking to the woman's mother, the guy that was supposedly a police officer came over started shouting that her daughter was under arrest and she was under arrest too." 10/ #STFUSaturday
"Ultimately the police arrived and we were dispersed but I have no idea how that ended and whether that guy was even a policeman. It shows how vulnerable women are - especially if you're a black woman - when it comes to the police." 11/ #STFUSaturday
"You just feel powerless and they can do these horrific things. They had this woman on the floor and they were doing this in front of a small child. For the police to say you can run if you feel unsafe or call the police or flag down a bus is stupid." 12/ #STFUSaturday
"My aunt is in her seventies and she was on her own in the West country on a bus and the driver pulled over the bus and came up next to her and started putting his hands all over her and she just had to talk him down from whatever he was thinking of doing." 13/ #STFUSaturday
"She was the only person on the bus and he was saying 'maybe we should go somewhere else' and stuff like that. She had to be very firm but not aggravate him and get him to drive her to where she needed to go as she was in the middle of nowhere." 14/ #STFUSaturday
"You're just as vulnerable as a woman with some random bus driver as you are with policemen. Nowhere is safe." 15/15 #STFUSaturday

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2 Oct
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TW/CW: rape, abuse, domestic violence

“The first time I can remember seeing a penis was when I went home for lunch from school with a school friend. I had just started high school so I must have been 11 or 12.” 1/ #STFUSaturday
"His older brother and friends were all there watching porn (animal porn) I don’t remember to this day how I ended up alone with one of the friends penis out trying to kiss me and make me touch it while they all laughed outside the door." 2/ #STFUSaturday
"Around 13 I went on a trip to France with school. Three different men exposed themselves to us, our teacher told us to ignore them. Aged around 14 I had my first proper boyfriend, I was besotted with him, we held hands a lot and kissed, that was it." 3/ #STFUSaturday
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THREAD By DM, wishes to remain anonymous.

TW/CW: rape, abuse, domestic violence

“The violence against me started when I was a child. My dad had rage issues and, whilst he hurt my mum and my sis, I was his preferred target.” 1/ #STFUSaturday
“After he died, I had an argument with my mum where she said 'yeah, but you used to wind him up...'.
I. Was. A. Child.
Also a grade A student, and sunny and kind (not that these things are prerequisites for not getting abuse).” 2/ #STFUSaturday
“It was never my behaviour that was the issue, it was always his uncontrolled temper. I used to have dreams he killed me.

Sexual harassment started from, I dunno, 13 years old probably - getting leered at and catcalled by blokes in vans or building sites.” 3/ #STFUSaturday
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By DM, wishes to remain anonymous:

"4 years ago, I worked at a tech company in Manchester. The all-male sales team were aggressively misogynistic. They rated female employees out of 10, openly shared naked pics of their gfs in the office." 1/5 #STFUSaturday
"One of them once told me: 'Look at [reducted name's] leather pants, I'm worried I'm going to get arrested.' A new, very young female employee started. The sales team took her out, everyone got drunk, and she slept with one of the sales guys." 2/5 #STFUSaturday
"On the Monday, the owner and sales manager organised a prank. They told the sales guy that the girl had gone to the police and was pressing rape charges. At my desk close to the board room, I heard the whole prank unfold and the subsequent hysterical laughter." 3/5 #STFUSaturday
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2 Oct
THREAD by DM, wants to remain anonymous:

"Prefer to remain anonymous, I’m in therapy from years of abuse. Brought up in a household of domestic violence, my mum left my dad eventually and we went to grandparents for a while." 1/ #STFUSaturday
"Age 8 Grandad exposed himself, got me to expose myself, escalated to touching (until my Nan clocked it so it stopped). Aged 10 my friends and I were flashed at by an open air swimming pool. We thought it was funny at first but then he started to follow us." 2/ #STFUSaturday
"Aged 12 a man grabbed my (hardly developed) breast as he walked past me, I was so shocked I just froze. He kept walking but when I turned he was looking back and smiling." 3/ #STFUSaturday
Read 7 tweets
2 Oct
THREAD by DM, wants to be anonymous:

"I would please like to remain anonymous. I haven't ever told anyone this.....first....thank you. Reading all these must take a toll yet you are doing it. I am grateful and already in tears!" 1/ #STFUSaturday
"I got a [car - app name redacted] home because I thought it was safer. The driver asked for my number and said to call him directly instead of using the app. He laughed when I refused over safety. Showed me he had my number anyway." 2/ #STFUSaturday
"Made me feel utterly unsafe, something that continued with texts/calls and the horror that thanks to my drop off, he knew where I lived. Then despite asking [app name redacted] not to allow him to pick me up, he came to get me after work in a different car." 3/ #STFUSaturday
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2 Oct
By DM, wishes to remain anonymous:

"I was first flashed at when jogging in broad daylight in a field when I was 17. The man was standing in the bushes, his trousers down, his genitals on display and grinning. I ran past, went home and cried." 1/4 #STFUSaturday
"People said 'it's just a flasher, tell him next time to put it away'. Then more recently, a year ago, I was flashed at again. This time I was in my 40s. He was a sixth form boy in SCHOOL UNIFORM. He was waiting down an alleyway, sitting on a tree stump." 2/4 #STFUSaturday
"He saw me coming, undid his trousers and got it out. This time, enraged and in my 40s and no longer afraid like the 17 year old I was, I confronted him. I yelled at him. I asked him what he was doing. He put it away and murmured something. I told the police." 3/4 #STFUSaturday
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