#6_Things to Remember When You Are Upset with Your Spouse.
1. Control your #anger whenever there is an argument with your Spouse.
2. If one has to win an #argument, let it be the other. Even if you find your spouse being unreasonable, be patient, back off and let the…
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argument finish. This will save your marriage from turning sour.
3. If you have to #criticize, be just.
One should speak up or correct their spouse when needed; but should say it with kindness and if possible present it as a suggestion rather than criticism.
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4. Do not drag in the #past.
Don’t bring in past mistakes in the argument. Try to settle whatever the issue is, as amicably as possible.
5. #Apologize and seek forgiveness if you were wrong.
Couples should apologize to each other and seek forgiveness from Allah. It is..
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better to patch things over sooner than later! Not only will your spouse be happy, but Allah will reward you for your humility as well.
6. Fear #Allah
The Nikah sermon enjoins one to adopt Taqwa or the fear or consciousness of Allah repeatedly!
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Remember there can be no
success of a marriage unless it is governed by the fear of Allah!
Always remember Allah whenever you are dealing with your spouse, and be fair knowing that He is watching.
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When I was in Mombasa, I was running a Madrasa with over 600 children for 3 years.
Some parents would remove their children from schools completely and make their children join the Madrasa fulltime so that they memorised the
#HolyQuran while getting tuition teachers to teach them in the evenings so that they don't miss out in their Secular Education. 3-4 years down the line when they are done memorizing the #HolyQuran, the go back to school and continue with their Secular Education.
I really admired
the dedication & the devotion these parents had towards the Book of ALLAH where they wanted their children to memorise the #HolyQuran. A Book that has over 600 pages and the child memorises it from cover to cover before the age of 12 years. This was a Noble Deed and the reward
“My #Lord, I am truly in great need of any good that You might send down to me.”
(Surah al Qasas 28: 24)
The wordings of this du’aa are so beautiful that they flow directly from the bottom of a Believer’s heart ❤️
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This young man was none other than the great #Prophet_Musa, alaihis salam.
Let me put it word by word:
رَبِّ = My Lord, My Sustainer!
إِنِّي = Indeed, I am
لِمَا = of whatever
أَنزَلْتَ = You send (down)
إِلَيَّ = to Me
مِنْ = of
خَيْرٍ = Good
فَقِيرٌ = (in) need
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This du’aa directly knocks at the door of the #Giver, Al Wah’haab. It also reveals the humble nature of the supplicant.
Help comes from Allah alone!
We need everything for our survival. And Allah alone is #Provider. He alone is the Helper. He alone is the Supporter.