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27 Jul, 4 tweets, 1 min read
"I never want to be tagged a woman beater." 🤝" I swore I would never raise my hand on a woman no matter what"

What does that even mean? You think you deserve an applause. SMH
A woman beater is not someone that returns a slap. It is someone who beats women unprovoked. If an adult hits you, feel free to return the favour.

"No matter what" only teaches women that their actions have no consequences and that is why with they are consistently violent.
You are not a gentleman for opting to be a mumu. If you can overpower somebody, there is no reason to allow them put you under the yoke of physical bandage because you think saving yourself makes you violent or a woman beater.

Nobody tagged her a man beater for the knife marks.
Treat adults like adult. With adulthood comes responsibility and let women know that toxicity will not be rewarded with the privileges reserved for good women.

Man up and grow up. Fix that shit.

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27 Jul
"But I love her" is the reason may of you are dying in toxicity. What do you think love is?

Like @Mrpossidez said, "true desire is beyond chemistry. I agree that there can be no profound romance without chemistry, but chemistry in itself is not love, it is not genuine desire.
it is just compatibility combined with an addictive attraction."

You can keep holding on to the dance of butterflies to determine the reality of your intimate relationship. It is always a question of whether you like your peace or not.
I don't believe you can only love one person. That is a Hollywood proposal that has been repeated too often for the feeble minded. Love is not blind. Love is intentional. Just as you intentionally choose whom tondate, you can intentionally quit.

Emotions blind and are unreliable
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4 Jul
SEX/LIFE: My views in conformity with reality

Brad was a fantastic playboy who knew what to say, what to do, where to go and damn well how to fuck. He was unapologetically toxic and noncommittal but of course, the bad guys always wins because the rush is more pleasing than peace
Cooper is a nice guy. Perfect career, gentleman, intentional man, family values, faithful, dream husband and perfect father but of course the good guys get nothing.
This is no canon but it is what hold sway most times when a toxic ex/lover is an option
Can you have it all? Maybe yes/maybe no

But the goal of marriage isn't to have it all. The goal of marriage is to strive for healthy family structure in which you can heartily love, be vulnerable but safe and raise children successfully.

People rarely have it all & that is fact
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3 Jul
Went for a friend's birthday and I met this woman whom.Ibe come to respect.

She told us about one 9ja wife her friend was filing paper for but he found out she was planning to divorce him and take over the house when she gets her stuff.

She told him to arrange a holiday to 9ja
Man got to 9ja with the wife and 2 children, hid her passport and after a week said he was going to another state to see a friend, he returned to UK. Her passport and Visa expired there. He stopped the processing.

She has been begging but he said never again.
He let her stay in his mansion in 9ja and sends his brother the children's school fees. They are well taken care of but Oga no wan do again.

She also spoke about a relation of hers whose child was misbehaving. She once heard the child telling the mom "oh mum, you're so dumb."
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3 Jul
NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING: I AM A HYPOCRITE

I was taken in the smell of summer when my mind harangued me with the early Twitter discourse on nobody owing you nothing. I reflected on it and realized, I wasn't just a hypocrite, it is a dangerous mindset to have.
In every sphere of human relationship, there is an acceptable code of conduct and you don't breach that.
- Arsene Wenger

Man was not created to live in isolation. We owe family everything. We friends love, support and the best of us. "What are friends for" is not just an obiter
While telling people that nobody owes a them anything is motivating to be self reliant, it creates a precedent where everyone live for themselves alone. I can understand not feeling entitled to people's positive responses but it is the norm to expect it from those close at heart.
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29 May
WOOING A WOMAN IN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP

There is a lay around belief that the love of your life or woman of your dream could be in a toxic relationship and it is your responsibility to rescue her by asking her out - in street speak, stealing her.
The problem with stealing someone who is comfortable in a toxic relationship is that you have a very low chance of being respected. Most ladies in toxic relationship are very much aware of the toxicity but they don't leave because of other benefits they derive from the person.
In trying to convince her to leave her partner for you. You would make promises to treat her better than her partner because you think she deserves better. You want to put a pearl on someone comfortable being another person's swine.
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28 May
Please, those infidelity series is not a justification to hate women. Each story is personal to the victim and it does not represent the gender. You were probably hurt by only or two people.
You can't hate women. You have no reason to. There is no justification for hating an entire gender. Women make up the other half of the human specie and they are an extention of us. We share this ecosystem together and we have no option but to love, cherish and co-habit with them
We are not feminists who hate and claim to have justification for their hate. You are not the cause of their trauma. To hate an entire gender is a cop-out from personal responsibility and a refusal to heal.
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