Satisfy your husband’s desires:
I tell you one thing O Sisters. You need to follow the Prophet ﷺ.

Let’s not just pay lip service to it. It’s not just about lip service my beloved sisters.

Dress up. Stay at home. Take pride in your hair. Take pride in your clothing & what you look like, what you smell like.
Your husband comes home and He should look at you and feeeel attracted to you.

Come on! The wives of the Prophet ﷺ were intimate with him and they fulfilled his rights.

How many of you, a month passes, and you haven’t been intimate with our Halal husband. He’s busy waiting!
He’s dressed up trying to attract you and she’s saying I’m tired.

You’re tired for WHAT? This is an ‘Ibadah (act of worship) to happen at night!!

Some of you might be weak for Tahajjud but you cannot come and complain that you can’t be intimate with your own husband!
You get a similar reward. WALLAHI!

And I’m not ashamed to speak about it. I’ve spoken about it several times because many women are guilty of thinking that men don’t have sexual needs.

Remember when you’re intimate with your husband and you fulfil his needs and you satisfy him
this is an act of charity!!

That is the wife!

So when you are home and you are intimate with your husband, remember that even during the menstrual cycle the wives of the Prophet would do everything with the Prophet except for intercourse.

With her own husband! Subhanallah
Everybody knows that intercourses during menses is forbidden but you can still do a lot Subhanallah!!

You can still do a lot. Many women say:

“Oh I’m on my cycle. See you in a week!”

What’s going on????

I’m being honest!

That’s a man. It’s not his fault. It’s from Allah
Treat him with respect.

That. Is. A. Wife.

That is what the Prophet ﷺ told us. Instructed us! He said it with his own mouth! His blessed lips!

Sisters, Your life is supposed to be a whole celebration of the Prophet ﷺ. Not just sending Salawaat on him.
When your husband comes home, he is happy to see you. You are happy to see him. You are focused.

The problem with many of you is that you’re focused on another man somewhere outside.

That’s what it is!!

You’re focused on another person outside.

Subhanallah! Astaghfirullah!
Now when your husband comes home and it’s halal and it’s a charity and your husband has been yearning for you and this time he’s actually up for it and he’s protected himself as best as he could, gotten himself into shape and you then say to him I’m tired
Tired for WHAT?

If your favourite reality TV drama was on, you wouldn’t have forgotten it or said you’re too tired to watch. But you want to say it for your husband?

May Allah forgive you.
Your husband tosses and turns and you’re on WhatsApp and Snapchat till 2AM and you’re still not getting the message. Instead you say “eh not now smh”

WHERE IS THE ISLAM IN YOU??

Islam should make you think why am I in bed?. I’m supposed to be because I have a husband
Why did you get married if you don’t want to spend the nights with your husband??

For what?

Sit with him. Talk with him. Play with him. Be intimate with him. Fulfill his rights. Satisfy him. Go to bed and get up for Tahajjud and don’t be ashamed to have a shower
even if the whole house knows what happened that night.

So what!! It was Halal.

It’s an honour for you to shower early in the morning and they’re thinking to themselves I wonder what the whole home is going to think but anyway I followed Islam and this is nothing to be ashamed
Your daughters will grow up doing the same thing and pleasing their husbands.

Imagine I’m talking about this from the PULPIT ON THE DAY OF JUMU’AH.

Because we are proud to acknowledge that THIS IS ISLAAAAAAM!!

ALLAAAHU AKBARRRR! THIS IS MY RELIGION AND YOURS
Let’s go further:

The wives of the Prophet ﷺ combed his hair.

So many reports on their romance & intimacy yet Subhanallah it is so sad as to how far away we have strayed that.

The only right women today talk about is..is..is..don’t pretend like you don’t know
You have to pay all my bills.

The husband has become little more than an ATM machine.

The End.
Before people get triggered, this thread is a remix of Menk’s Friday Khutbah where all I did was just switch the genders

But do observe how men are spoken to here and the sweeping generalisations made

• • •

Missing some Tweet in this thread? You can try to force a refresh
 

Keep Current with آل معلم

آل معلم Profile picture

Stay in touch and get notified when new unrolls are available from this author!

Read all threads

This Thread may be Removed Anytime!

PDF

Twitter may remove this content at anytime! Save it as PDF for later use!

Try unrolling a thread yourself!

how to unroll video
  1. Follow @ThreadReaderApp to mention us!

  2. From a Twitter thread mention us with a keyword "unroll"
@threadreaderapp unroll

Practice here first or read more on our help page!

More from @Aal_Moalim

18 Nov
Assalamu Alaykum, firstly are you a brother or sister? — وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته

A brother curiouscat.qa/Aal_Moalim/pos…
would you give me an ijazah in a book youve covered on your youtube channel — الحمد لله

Firstly, Ijāzah’s today are little more than a certificate used to shove down people’s throat when they ask ‘where did you study & who did y… curiouscat.qa/Aal_Moalim/pos…
Read 14 tweets
5 Nov
This speech is not sound for a number of reasons as highlighted here (you can skip to around the 16 minute mark)

t.me/doros_alkulify…

I’ll sum it up in this thread:
When Iraq is mentioned, what’s intended are two major hubs:

Kufah & Basrah

When Hijaz is mentioned, what’s intended are two major hubs:

Makkah & Madinah
To say that Iraq did not have access to as many Hadith as Hijaz is egregious.

1. There are 6 individuals who are considered ‘centres of Hadith transmissions’ as mentioned by the great Ali b. Al Madini.

They are:
Read 15 tweets
4 Nov
Apparently saying that you don't have to have the Qur'an memorised cover to cover in order to be a solid Talib 'ilm is "destroying the aspirations of students and causing confusion to the beginning student in his methodology of pursuing knowledge".
I'd say some of the statements in that thread are what destroys the aspirations of new students.

Imagine X who just got off the roads at 25 and wants to seek knowledge and he's told you cannot become a Talib 'Ilm or do anything until you've memorised the Quran cover to cover.
The beginning student is of varying levels. A 7 year old beginner is not the same as a 26 year old beginner. A person who grew up surrounded by ilm is not like one who grew up surrounded by sin and misguidance and who has only just come to the truth
Read 4 tweets
4 Nov
How did the Salaf look at the statement:

‘We should ignore the issues of Khilaf amongst those who claim to be part of the Ummah and unite to focus on the external enemy’?
قال الفريابي:

حدثنا هشام بن خالد الأزرق، حدثنا أبو مسهر، حدثني عون بن حكيم، حدثني الوليد بن سليمان بن أبي السائب أن رجاء بن حيوة كتب إلى هشام بن عبد الملك:

بلغني يا أمير المؤمنين أنه وقع في نفسك شيء بأمر قتل غيلان, وصالح، فوالله لقتلهما أفضل من قتل ألفين من الروم والترك
Rajaa’ b. Haywah sent a letter to the Caliph Hisham b. Abdul Malik after it reached him that the caliph had doubts regarding the command to kill Ghaylan and Salih.

Rajaa’ said:

“By Allah the killing of Ghaylan and Salih is superior to killing 2000 Romans and Turks”
Read 6 tweets
9 Oct
“If a woman prays her 5, fasts her month, protects her private area & obeys her husband it will be said to her “Enter into Paradise from any of its doors””
إذا صلت المرأة خمسها وصامت شهرها وحفظت فرجها وأطاعت زوجها قيل لها ادخلي الجنة من أي أبواب الجنة شئت
After a brief look into this Hadith, it seems that it’s inauthentic.

And Allah knows best
Read 4 tweets
8 Oct
A: Laymen shouldn’t be reading Bukhari.

B: Why?

A: It can cause doubts

B: What Hadith works should they read then?

A: 40 Hadith Nawawi, Riyadh Saliheen etc.
B: Ok let’s scan through Nawawi’s 40 Hadith

Hadith 4: Embryology (very common area for doubt today), details on the issue of divine decree (common area of doubt)

Hadith 5: The concept of Bid’ah (common area for doubts)
Hadith 6: What constitutes “doubtful matters”? How do I know when to act on doubtful matters & when not to?

Hadith 7: How do you give advice to Allah & His messenger?

Hadith 8: The Prophet was commanded to fight. What does this mean? Jihad? What about إلا بحق الإسلام?
Read 13 tweets

Did Thread Reader help you today?

Support us! We are indie developers!


This site is made by just two indie developers on a laptop doing marketing, support and development! Read more about the story.

Become a Premium Member ($3/month or $30/year) and get exclusive features!

Become Premium

Too expensive? Make a small donation by buying us coffee ($5) or help with server cost ($10)

Donate via Paypal

Thank you for your support!

Follow Us on Twitter!

:(