Reputation isonu. This Femi guy was all about the money but I'll leave you to read for yourself. This lady is a good lady. This is her last statement and they will be under the rader. The business will go on and mentors will et value for their money.
Femi is a despicable friend. You don't kick a friend when he is down. In every sphere of human relationship, there is an acceptable codenof conduct.
Oh well 🤷♂️
This was when Chizom was having issues drawing 1.5m from Dafribank to pay employees
This was when Chizom contacted the sponsor himself about how the money was inaccessible.
This was when Chizom also contacted Dafribank out of frustration cause they had charged him heavily to pull an amount that wasn’t even received.
Dafribank's response
This guy's problem was money and while that is u derdtabdable, he failed to understand the struggle Chizom was having pulling the money and doubly, wasn't empathetic about the resulting fall from the scandal. He was out for a last pay day.
The BTC Transaction which Chizom was forced to make to pay Femi
500k paid to Femi to conclude his mentorship. Pay which failed to disclose in his thread.
Make of the thread what you will but that Femi guy is very dishonest. Werey said he left because of his reputation.
Reputation isonu
The business will go on. It will thrive. Understandably, they will be away from Twitter for a while while they rebuild. Feel free to register with them and get the learning you need. Privileged dudes should please sponsor the less privileged.
Life happens. Have a good weekend.
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Within the home, leadership is gendered. A man must govern the house irrespectiveof who earns more. The problem with this generation is that we are money obsessed but money is not the value on which a home a built. Money is for bills and comfort.
Family values is the most important value in building a home. There is no personal income in marriage irrespectiveof who earns more. All income are family income and should be expended in the best interest of the home.
As a man, you have to govern your home financially, spiritually, emotionally, making decisions in the best interest of family, sacrificing yourself for the benefit of wife and kids, loving and treating your wife right, raising Godly children on your personal and spiritual values
1. Undying love exist to the extent you are willing to love your partner. Love isna verb not a noun. It is what ypu do, not how you feel. You chose your partner and pledge to love them and do right by them - that itself is sufficient unto the day of rapture.
The fire don't go out unless you let it. It is your responsibility to intentionally fan it daily and regularly so it doesn't go out. You don't leave the fore to itself and wait to see how itbgoes. It will die. Relationship is hardwork even on the best days.
Like T.D Jakes said, "you have to go to your partner when you are in love. You have to go to them when younare not in love until you are in love."
I've said lot if times that "falling in love" is just emotional attachment. Whether or not that feeling is there, love your partner
People who judge hypergamy seems to do it emotionally because of the monetary weight. But hypergampus people are also taking a risk people don't talk about.
They have chosen wealth as priority, all other factors less considered. The man could be good or toxic. Still a risk
This was why I asked the question last week:
Do.ypunwantba rich man all other facts less considered or a good man, all other factors less considered. Some people said both but we know that means rich at the risk of his personality.
You accept the love ypunthink you deserve.
Money is not the factor for determining happiness. It is a factor for determining who is more comfortable and primed for sorting bills.
To determine happiness, there has to be an indepth comparative study of the relationships in view. Happiness doesn't show by appearance.
Some men think they can't be infertile because they ejaculate. Some see it as a shame that they are infertile and so they cover the truth and the ignorant wen thinks it is her fault. Some women hide the truth about being infertile because she wants to marry and remain married.
So the guilty party keeps quiet while their partner is hoping from pillar to post praying and seeking alternative solutions.
I don't think the lady should have deleted the video. However, there are nuances attached to these thing. Most ladies into transactional sex are not as proud or shameless as they project. Exposing her like that must have brought shame to her and her love ones/guardians.
We talk a lot about actions and consequences but people prefer delusions because delusions are comforting. It is fine if you want to prostitute but please ensure you can stand the heat that comes with living in this clime if publicly ousted.
While there is no pride in prostitution, they form a big part of the society. They render an underrated service for which demand is always high.
Once again, this shows that men and women will never be judged the same way.
The replies under the romantic exchange with Ada were not uncommon and frankly, not unexpected. I have seen similar responses under my old tweets when I am being light hearted.
Dickson focus, we are losing a patriarchy king, so you can be romantic?
Comments like this reinforces the perception that I am this stonewall, tough, unemotional person and it is why some ladies think I am unapproachable or look like someone who doesn't give to relate with women.
I have stated consistently that Masculinity and Patriarchy is not hate for women. It is not a fight against women. It is practically impossible to hate the other gender you share the world with and it is stupid to even think of doing so.