Research shows that if coaches are overly critical and have a "negative appraisal" post-game, testosterone levels will drop and it will negatively impacts the next game performance.
Does this mean don't ever provide negative feedback? No.
It means after a game is a sensitive period.
If we just lost, we are primed for feeling threatened. If the person in power (coach) lights into us, that validates/amplifies the threat response.
Under threat, we take any critique or criticism personally. We see it as an attack on who we are, our competency. Especially if our self-worth is intertwined with playing the game.
So what? Before you critique, get athletes out of defensive/threat mode.
Athletes need to be in a place where they see the critique as informational, not personal.
That means giving time an space to decompress, debrief with friends/teammates (who aren't threatening), and so forth.
Once out of defense mode, then you can critique.
I like to talk about athletes and criticism/threat, but the truth is, this applies to everyone. It's a human response.
Doctors, students, bosses addressing workers.
Learn when and how to offer constructive critique. Make sure it's seen as informational, not personal.
If you want to dive further into hormones, winning and losing, I'd suggest taking a read through the thread below. I include links to research and give some thoughts on what to do about it.
If this sort of work fascinates you, consider giving a follow:
of people obsessing over infrared saunas, magic elixirs & special supplements
Stop searching for the 21st-century version of the fountain of youth
If you want to be good at anything, mastering the basics gets you 99% of the way there.
Thread on Nailing the Basics:
We live in a quick fix culture.
There is real harm being done by the purveyors of scientific misinformation, diet cults, hack culture, anti-vaxxers, and those who are convinced that there is one optimal way to workout.
It’s all the same heist:
-create doubt on the tried and true
-oversell the small and inconsequential
-sprinkle in some "data"; speak from authority
-create a tribe
-and then sell the magic pill, lotion, potion, or program.
It captures you. Interest + Talent align at the right time.
It has to come from an internal motivator. External does not sustain it. It's more like play, where you spend hours doing the thing because time floats by as you are enamored.
If you, as the parent, push the kid to do it, it extinguishes the flame.
It shifts the primary driver from 'play' and curious exploration to external performance type drivers. You've shifted from exploring to searching and seeking mode.
Many of us think we are the elite performer who is looking for the final 1% to push us to gold.
The reality is...most of us are the person who needs to simply exercise most days, eat some vegetables, take a walk, sleep more, and that would boost our performance and well-being.
I understand that message doesn't sell as well as the magic supplement, the perfect daily routine, the optimization of our biorhythms...but it actually works.
When I was a young athlete with potential, my coach didn't say "take this supplement." He said, try running on weekends.
Too many of us skip to the 'sexy' details, the 1% items, before we've tried 'running on weekends.'
We skip to relying on some magic drink elixir to give us energy in our day, instead of taking a walk, a 10-minute nap, or stepping away from our device for a few minutes at work.
"Olympic medallists did what most would do: they opened their phones & started scrolling through goodwill messages
All except one. Kipchoge placed his phone in front of him & never touched it,sitting there —for hours— in contented silence irishexaminer.com/sport/otherspo…
What about gadgets? For the best in the world? Nope.
Learn to listen to your body
"His athletes don’t wear heart rate monitors or measure blood lactate, as so many do in Europe, but he instils the need to gauge effort via their internal monitor — challenging yet controlled.:
Routine— Same routine, essentially repeated for months.
“By 9pm, I’m in bed,” says Kipchoge, whose alarm will sound at 5:45am the next morning to start the whole process again.
This is how he lives, week in, week out, for four to five months ahead of every major marathon."