not everyone has experienced a scene growing in prominence/significance so I think it might be worth taking a moment to talk out loud about it so that people can consider it and think about what they want
it’s very difficult if not impossible to have some kind of scene in a public space that does some kind of interesting/important work without getting the attention of the wider world around it. reflect on this, really consider about it, because it will inform your choices
maximising both interestingness and privacy is very difficult to do. interestingness tends to require interfacing with as much of reality as possible. there *are* certainly pockets of deep interestingness that are cloistered-hidden, but by definition, you won’t find them randomly
(lol my grammar is all over the place today)
I know some people are grumpy about having their little favorite cozy corner suddenly be swamped by outsiders. It’s annoying, I get it. But you do also have to understand… if you didn’t want this, you shouldn’t have been public
This is tricky stuff to talk about in plaintext. There’s how things are, and how things ought to be. I do wish we had a really thoughtful global public commons that knew how to be patient, respectful, etc. I’m working on it!! It’s my life’s task! But also…
it’s worth taking the time to think in advance about the precise level of exposure to public that you want, and to calibrate your public utterances accordingly
This is more work than most people bother to do, fair enough, but I think it’s worth articulating for people who haven’t thought about it
Rewatching Iron Man (2007). I remember watching it for the first time at a friend’s place around 2010 or so. Opens with AC/DC
“I don’t want to see this on your MySpace page”, soldier fiddling with digital camera, extremely sharp. All of this first 3 minutes, super snappy editing
the montage of Tony’s life at the apogee awards is excellent exposition
the cut from “he’s always working” to him gambling is also excellent, giving the award to Caesar… seducing the journalist, introducing Jarvis, the house… Potts… 9 minutes!!
I gotta do a thread of things that are marketed/ wrongly, which is almost all things
1. math is the study of relationships between things. you can use known quantities to figure out unknown quantities. so math is about learning to know the unknown. it’s literal sorcery, to the uninitiated
2. honesty – genuine, spirited honesty– is a source of tremendous power. people will tell kids that honesty is good but they ironically won’t admit that they don’t really know why, apart from some vague handwavey “well lying is bad and bad things happen”aka “we live in a society”
there’s this powerful anecdote about how a firefighter once saved his crew when they stepped into a burning house, and something felt off to him, and he said “we need to get out NOW!”, and the whole house collapsed… turned out the fire was way bigger in the basement
usually this story is told in the context of, the power of intuition. the man sensed that the fire was “off”. later he figured out that it’s because it was abnormally hot, abnormally quiet given the heat, and the fire just wasn’t responding to the water as it normally would
but today I’m thinking about it from the fire’s perspective
from the outside, all burning houses kinda look the same, at least to casual observers
but on the inside, a basement fire is much more powerful, much more dangerous
Ok I’m getting tattooed in a few minutes. I have a request: I’m choosing to get all dramatic about this experience and treat it as a kind of shamanic initiation ceremony. Leave me a message that you would want me to carry past the threshold? What should I remember
I have earned the respect of every tattoo artist in this studio and multiple dudes with full sleeves etc. officially a bad mf ❤️🔥. always been etc etc