I am 48yo & only recently started calling my father, Dad. It was a conscious choice as he has finally earned my trust after decades of absence & disappointments. Our relationship is finally genuine, not contrived, it is meaningful & safe. I feel loved & sacred in his presence.
My Dad, Martin is a retired college professor & published author. For decades the world was robbed of his brilliance due to the disease of addiction & I was robbed of his presence due to a legal system which criminalized his disease.
While incarcerated, Martin never stopped writing me. However, due to my own hurt, I stopped reading them but still saved them. However, I always read the books he sent & my love for poetry & the Harlem Renaissance is owed to his parenting from behind the wall.
Upon his re entry we worked slowly to est. a foundation, to heal & to get to know one another. We share a love for books, cake, dogs & politics. We have the same long nose, high cheekbones, bad knees & feet. MF is both our preferred curse word. We are friends who laugh together.
I am proud of my Dad. I love him. And I thank God for our healing & for second chances. 8 yrs ago he walked me down the aisle to the love of my life on our wedding day. If you are estranged fr your father, know that getting to the other side is possible. #HappyFathersDay
And if your father has passed away, may your day be filled with your happiest of remembrances & times together. I pray you feel his spirit near & the ache of your longing subsides over time.

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