The rollercoaster of a film that is @allatoncemovie is the first time I feel someone has heard and given voice to the flood of “what if’s” that perimenopause has brought as well as the physical & emotional changes we are squeezed through to emerge as the superheroes we need to be
How many of us are ready for perimenopause? I am a feminist and until shamefully recently, I thought menopause would take a few months or so during which my period would sort of peter out and boom I’m done. Wow, have I learned.
But once Evelyn gets a taste of options–the What If’s–available to her alter egos in other universes, we understand why women are denied a three-dimensional life, why their imagination is flattened out of daring to want any more than what they have.
Because we would want more, we would want different, and how would our universe handle that, huh?!
“Bitch” and “cunt” are not the worst things you could call a woman. Selfish is. Knowing what you want and taking it is filed under “selfish” in patriarchy’s dictionary. feministgiant.com/p/the-fuck-it-…#GoodLucktoYouLeoGrande
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25yrs ago I had an “illegal” abortion in Egypt. 4yrs later I had a “legal” abortion in the US. I use inverted commas because I reject the State’s attempt to control my uterus. The State can fuck off w/its opinions about what I can/can’t do w/my uterus. That control belongs to me.
I was not raped. I was not sick. The pregnancies did not threaten my life. I did not already have children. I just did not want to be pregnant.
I am looking for a therapist. I've been open about my anxiety and the difficulty of disentangling perimenopause from the pandemic. It feels like trying to drive a car with the hand brake on.
You risk losing us, @ManUtd. My love for you has been tenacious but it is not unconditional. Choose us, take the side of your supporters who love you, by taking a definitive stand against gender-based violence.
An international group of death studies practitioners and scholars from several countries and disciplines--has coined the concept #GriefLiteracy, which means “the capacity to access, process, and use knowledge regarding the experience of loss.”
Loss, as they explain, does not only occur in response to death; any loss can cause us to grieve.