For those of us in marginalized communities, Twitter has always held a lot of harassment, but it's been balanced by activist communities on here. So #BlackTwitter, #LGBTQ__Twitter, #DisabilityTwitter--these are critically important communities that deserve support, not dismissal.
Relentless whining by predominately ⬜ folks who don't even interact with their followers like I do and others do is really annoying and counterproductive. Many of us wish you'd stop doing it. If you hate Twitter, leave. But don't ruin it for those of us who need it for survival.
If you can't find anyone worthy to interact with on here, that's a you problem, not a Twitter problem. There are so many folks on here who fascinate me, who are brilliant, who I learn from. There are folks I genuinely love. I have made RL friendships on here. You can, too.
When you say "Twitter's a cesspool," who are you talking about? The people who built this site are activists and BIPOC, queer people and writers. We aren't the cesspool. We are the heartbeat, we are the pulse, we are what keeps this place going no matter how Elroy f*cks with it.
It's like when ⬜people say that we should cut off the red states--forgetting that that's where BIPOC are. Mississippi--nearly 50% Black, Texas--only 40% ⬜ people, Arizona almost 50/50 split between ⬜ and BIPOC. Adjust your filters on the TL and politically. You won't be sorry.
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🧵#widowhood
In the movies, when a spouse dies, everyone brings food to the bereaved. Pure fiction. The primary reason I have to get some form of transport in my house is so I can get food. The Wife always made sure we were fed. And she made great vegetarian meals for me.
I have eaten few decent meals since The Wife passed. It's aggravating my CHF and every day around 3pm I am so hungry. Were it not for The Wife's bestie who makes sure the cats & I get fed every day,we wouldn't have survived. But she is not a cook. The Wife was a terrific cook.
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Don't say "whatever you need" unless you mean that. It's a thing people say to say something, but it's not helpful if you don't follow through. Some friends of The Wife, a couple we used to spend time with, sent me soup, bread and cookies from this comfort food place. Perfect.
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This story has flown under the national radar. It shouldn't. It's yet another example of the GOP attempting to steal votes. My latest--please read/RT/like and be outraged!
Despite election results, Republicans attempting to keep Pa. house majority epgn.com/2022/12/28/des…
"The GOP has controlled the legislature in the Commonwealth for over a decade. If Republicans hold onto that power, they can force bills through that will challenge abortion rights, LGBTQ rights, voter ID and a myriad of other critical issues." epgn.com/2022/12/28/des…
"To allow Republicans to maintain control after January 3 would violate the will of the voters who were declarative in rejecting the GOP agenda as evidenced by the elections of Shapiro and Fetterman and that narrow legislative win." epgn.com/2022/12/28/des…
A scientist I spoke with this week said likely a million people will die of COVID in China in the next month. Failure to vaccinate is expected to create a massive wave of infections. Then I thought about how a million people died here in the US and we never ever talk about it.
When I write about grief, I think about this, that ostensibly every 300th person in the US just died of COVID and we not only didn't grieve those people, we acted as if they had never existed and that there wasn't pandemic that killed them and that the then-POTUS didn't fuel it.
Of all the truly terrible & egregious things Trump did, the worst was pretending he didn't nearly die from COVID and then coming back to the White House,standing on the balcony --still wildly out of breath because of COVID--and tearing off his mask like it was an act of bravery.
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Deposition transcripts released Wednesday by the Jan. 6 Committee revealed new details about the role that Pennsylvania Republicans played in Trump’s efforts to overturn the 2020 election and stay in the White House.
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Mike Roman, one of Trump’s top election advisers, helped spearhead efforts to send pro-Trump electors to DC as Congress met to certify election results....The documents also shed new light on the role a congressional staffer for U.S. Rep. Mike Kelly played behind the scenes.
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Also revealed: a previously undisclosed attempt by State Sen. Doug Mastriano to access voting machines days before Jan. 6 as well as references to a plan floated by the White House to sue Pennsylvania directly in the US Supreme Court over its administration of the 2020 vote.
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Half my work day was spent rediscovering just how badly this country fails sick/disabled people every day and that there is only one remedy--lots of money. You can get what you need with money. Otherwise the healthcare/social welfare system would prefer you just go away or die.
I'm kinda in a state of rage now,reminded of how I had to fight for every blasted freaking thing for The Wife and how I was told that she didn't qualify for nursing care and "we prefer family members learn to do the nursing" and she would say,"What if you don't have family?"
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The healthcare system's failure to help me from when I was paralyzed--in August 2016!--impacted not just my own healthcare, but healthcare for The Wife. My not getting services impacted my ability to care for her. The system refusing both of us services was very destructive.
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🔹There are nearly 12M widows I the US. 🔹The most common age of widowhood is 59.🔹 There will be 2,800 new widows today. 🔹It takes at least a year to be grieving less, but it could take longer.🔹 (Yes, I am trying to write my way out of my grief and it's not working.)
It's crucial that you protect yourself with self-care once you have been widowed: the chance of you following your spouse in death rises exponentially: 66% in the first 90 days. So take care of yourselves. Sleep, eat, talk to people who love you, seek therapy if you can. 💔
I wrote this. I'd be happy if you could read it and RT it so my editors know folks are reading it. TYVM. queerforty.com/on-becoming-a-…