Ugh. Listening to @boom973 this morning, and they're centering autism moms for "Autism Awareness Day".
As an autistic, I'm so sick of the voices of autism-adjacent people being centered and elevated in matters of autism.
Autistic voices are what should matter this month!
Bonus crap points for using the words "dealing with", when talking about the perspective of an Autism mom.
The only "dealing with" that should be discussed in terms of autism awareness, is all of the nonsense we have to deal with from non-autistics.
"What she has to deal with", when discussing the autism-adjacent ... It's gross. It's dehumanizing.
This radio station is pretty progressive, I could never imagine them saying:
"Here's a white author, talking about what she has to deal with, as the relative of a Black person" as a promotion for Black History Month.
... So why do it for autism awareness?
In other news, I made it to April 2 before being well and thoroughly DONE with #AutismAwarenessMonth .
I don't know a single autistic person who enjoys "our" month, most are actively stressed out by the increase in horrible language & dehumanization we're subjected to in April.
Last year, I didn't even make it TO April before being done with April, so I guess that's an improvement?
You know, I hope the politicians being targeted by Big ABA realize that what's happening to them is a demonstration of what they're doing to young kids.
A politician tweets or speaks in support of #ActuallyAutistic people, & that is a PROBLEMATIC BEHAVIOUR to be extinguished.
If the communication isn't what they want (support for their abuse), they seek to beat it - and the speaker - into submission.
Now imagine that you're a five year old, and that anger and hatred is being aimed at your "problematic behaviour"...
... but your "behaviour" is something like self-soothing by strumming your fingers, or flapping.
Or it actually is your speech, they just don't like what you're saying (echolalia, perhaps?).
Just saw that an ABA profiteer referred to anti-ABA autistics (ie: the vast majority of us) as "the antivaxxers of the autism world".
Imagine referring to a marginalized group as the "(their oppressors) of (their) world".
That's like saying "Jews are the Nazis of Judaism". Huh?
One day, I'm going to stop being surprised at how ridiculous ABA profiteers and Warrior parents are, but I'm sure there's something just around the corner that will top even this.
"Black people are the KKK of the POC world!".
Do they hear themselves? Absolutely ridiculous.
Up until the pandemic that affected *everyone*, autistics were the #1 target of antivaxxers, and we were constantly victimized by them, used as boogeyman in their agendas, etc.
My day started out by reading that the org of autism "Warrior parents" that have been screaming about being silenced by those of us - that they decided to abuse - are...
... Approaching the government to cause trouble for @kemalahmedproud at a guest speaker gig.
Wow.
Again, the complete lack of self awareness is stunning.
If you're a member of a majority group that is harming a marginalized group, you don't get to throw tantrums about being *silenced* when that minority group speaks up about the abuse.
Period.
Then there's the wild hypocrisy of literally trying to get the government to step in and prevent a member of that marginalized group from appearing as a guest speaker at a school board...
... While you're screaming about being "silenced" by that marginalized group.