1/ Turn your wife into a waste bin where you vomit all the frustrations you took up from outside. Let your return to your own home turn her into a tip-toe ghost. Let all the kids disappear at your appearing. That's the first step to making her a "nobody" in her own home.
2/ On the fight against domestic abuse of women by men, we've all been somewhat united, but we've failed to notice the equally devastating VERBAL ABUSE some men suffer in the hands of their wives. And men being men find it difficult to tell what they go through for fear of scorn.
First, it DOESN'T mean women should submit to men. I once heard a man publicly respond to a woman in anger saying "I have your type at home". And I said to him, "you're right Sir, she's female, but that doesn't mean she's the same as your wife.
1./ As an adult, you may have enjoyed few rewards for indulging in the act of always turning to your parents to discuss your marriage, but that’s only healthy if you don’t overdo things or when you don’t do it to spite or undo your spouse.
1./ Politics may be a choice, but governance is not. Those who say they don't care about who leads them because they hate the dirt and evil of politics will reap without doubt the fruit of governance... whether good or bad. [Cont'd]
/2. Your woman does not really need you to do the "big" things to satisfy her. Seemingly "little things" like hugging her, kissing her on the forehead, telling her you love her, noticing her new hairstyle, sitting with her in the kitchen makes her feel so loved and valued.