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May 25, 2019 11 tweets 2 min read
matfem trans activists are so annoying. imagine calling yourself a materialist and being totally ignorant to the fact that by definition materialist feminism is about “seeing gender as a social construct, with society forcing gender roles, such as bearing children, onto women.”
like there is no version of true materialist feminism that considers transwomen women. because materialism contrasts idealism, which is the belief that human consciousness creates reality, the materialist conception is that that material reality creates human consciousness.
by this definition, the belief that transwomen are women is fundamentally incompatible with matfeminism. transwomen (males who face “transmisogyny”) dont exist materially as women bc women (human females) dont experience transmisogyny. the only way to experience it is to be male.
the material reality of transwomen is certainly different than the material reality of males who are not gender non-conforming, but this still doesn’t make transwomen definitionally women. consider this fact: GNC gay men often have material experiences very similar to transwomen.
the only MATERIAL difference, under capitalist patriarchy, btwn GNC men treated badly for being GNC & transwomen experiencing “transmisogyny” is that TW identify as women. the concept of “identifying as a woman” is idealistic, and therefore incompatible with materialist feminism.
materially, what makes transwomen women? the fact that many are sex workers & most sex workers are women? that’s not valid proof that theyre materially women. TW in sexwork have significant differences between their material conditions and the conditions of female ppl in sexwork.
materially, what makes TW women? the fact that men are violent to them for expressing themselves? again, not valid proof that TWAW. men are violent towards males they dislike or disagree with all the time. male violence against women and male violence against TW are not the same.
that’s not to say that TW’s safety is not important. nor is it undermining what transwomen go through. we SHOULD be working to dismantle public disdain for GNC males (TW included) & working to provide jobs/resources for TW so poor TW don’t turn to dangerous sex work to survive.
it is simply saying that, in following both the definition and beliefs of materialist feminism, there is no reality in which a transwoman experiences life materially similar enough to women (human females) that would make “transwomen are women” a valid materialist feminist take.
that does NOT mean i won’t respect the pronouns of adult transsexual males who pass consistently & move through the world being treated as women. i’m not a dickhead. but i’m also not going to accept the statement “transwomen are women, end of” as a matfem take when it’s just not.
so if you call yourself a matfem and somehow also insist that a feminist movement must center transwomen to be legitimate (like this person does), i urge you to reconsider either a. your belief that all TWAW or b. your label as a materialist feminist.

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Jul 25, 2019
trans identification presented the perfect opportunity for me to push myself further back in the closet & deny my truth. i was able to stew on my internalized homophobia & misogyny & come up w absolutely asinine and totally unrealistic theories as to how i actually wasnt female.
when i identified as a gay man i used to frequently say: “as a kid i couldn’t picture myself as a woman married to a man. but i also couldn’t picture myself as a woman married to a woman. i CAN picture myself as a man married to a man.” this to me was proof that i wasn’t a woman.
but why couldn’t i picture myself as a woman, even one w a wife, even when i knew i liked girls?
though i “Knew” lesbians existed, i didn’t consider it a real thing or a genuine option for me. i pictured 2 beautiful feminine women in dresses and i couldn’t see myself like that.
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Jun 7, 2019
so disingenuous & evil. “sexism is explicitly the discrimination based on someone’s sex” how can u disagree with that? it’s a legitimate fact.
it’s true that women are oppressed on more axes than simply sex but why does that require removing bio sex as a protected characteristic?
they’re drawing a false parallel & arguing against something no one is claiming. they say “sexism” then switch to “misogyny”.
women DO experience oppression in different ways, which intersect w race, class, disability, sexuality etc. doesn’t mean we don’t ALSO experience sexism.
is race a protected class? yes.
is sexual orientation? yes.
is disability? yes.
“gender identity”? not explicitly, no, but whats an example of oppression/discrimination on the basis of gender ID? people can dress, express themselves, & personally identify however they please.
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do you think youve experienced #RapidOnsetGenderDysphoria? do you have a child or friend that you think may have #ROGD? i lived w #rogd for 3 years believing i wasnt a girl bc the #transcult told me i didn’t have to be. i wanna answer any questions u have abt #ROGD or #beingtrans
also if you’re too nervous to message or reply to me you can ask at my curiouscat! i don’t bite, i promise. :-) curiouscat.me/guessimafab
the basics: id been “part of the LGBT community” (aka, i ID’d as bi and was active on tumblr) thru of high school. i’d been a tomboy when i was young, had a sexuality crisis in middle school, and went thru HS as a “regular girl”- i wasnt feminine, but wasn’t gender nonconforming.
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May 12, 2019
i’m bad at letting myself be traumatized. i do a LOT of internalizing & repressing & also i’m like .. processing so Much Stuff that‘s emotionally overwhelming & mentally taxing stuff to work on so i can’t do it all the time. and sometimes i feel like i make such little progress.
i haven’t engaged with porn in an incredibly long time now but sometimes i feel hopeless because i actually feel like i can’t like disintangle my sex life and relationship with sex from pornography. i don’t mean to imply that i watch it, like it, or support it (because i don’t)
i mean the influences on my relationship w sex/intimacy from childhood- being exposed to bdsm/fetish porn from as early as age 9. i’m angry i was never allowed to process sexuality normally bc of how early i was exposed. some of my first childhood memories at all are of porn.
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May 9, 2019
when i look back at the day i “came out as trans” to my parents i feel so overwhelmed w guilt & shame. they & i both had no idea the extent to which the ideology had been hammered into my brain as irrefutable.. they did their best and it ended with a screaming match & me leaving.
they had so many questions that i didn’t have answers to because of the huge gaps in logic that i’d been conditioned to ignore. when they pointed them out i became flustered and overwhelmed and felt like i was being attacked for the way that i felt. i left after dinner, sobbing.
we didn’t talk directly about it for months. i wasn’t living w them full-time, then. whenever i came home, we danced around the subject and they pointedly ignored referring to me by name or pronouns at all. to me, at the time this was just more of a rejection & fuel to my fire.
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May 2, 2019
sexual orientation and attraction is about sex at birth and if you think that it’s not or can’t understand why people say that it is, you’re probably bisexual
the argument about why ppl should be willing to date trans people that goes “so you’re telling me if you fell in love with someone and then found out they were trans you’d just stop feeling that way?” is utterly fucking ridiculous for a number of reasons
like this i guess goes into the whole “should someone have to disclose their trans status to everyone they may date” thing, but if i would genuinely not be able to fall in love with someone if i was not aware of what their ASAB is because that’s like.. a huge part of who they are
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