Mexico Night 4: The Disco was transformed into a Dungeon where anyone could come watch people playing or sign up to have a mini-scene with a service Top. #SwingsetDesire#DungeonNight#BDSM#kink
I did mindfuck, negotation skills, foot worship, D/s, saran wrap bondage & knife play. Tonya was in service to me for the & did an EXCEPTIONAL job of assisting & supporting me during an evening when I give a lot and it can really wear me out. #SwingsetDesire
She was up for all kinds of play whenever I was between scenes. I put to good use my awesome, handmade, rubber boot/shoe strap-on made by @InHerTube in Portland that I bought when I was at Kinkfest last Spring. I love it!! #SwingsetDesire#DungeonNight#BDSM#kink
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Inequities persist in wages, visibility, power & opportunities. Companies continue to produce content w/racial fetishization, stereotypes & offensive language & marketing. We talk about how to address the inequality & oppression performers of color face...
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New @SexOutLoudRadio!Professors @JenniferSHirsch & @shamuskhan are the authors of Sexual Citizens: A Landmark Study of Sex, Power, and Assault on Campus (from @wwnorton) based on brilliant research by them and a huge team about sexual assault on college campus. #sexualcitizens
Current #sexualassault discourses focus on toxic masculinity, consent, bystander intervention, adjudication—all important. @JenniferSHirsch & @shamuskhan take a new approach w/the concepts of sexual projects, sexual citizenship, & sexual geographies...#sexualcitizens
They share compelling stories of students navigating sexuality in a new environment; they don’t just focus on individual players but the systems that fail many of us. We talk about sex education (or lack thereof), power dynamics, inequalities, social status & peer pressure.
On the new @SexOutLoudRadio, I welcome veteran anti-racist activist Jordan Flaherty to discuss his book No More Heroes: Grassroots Responses to the Savior Mentality (published by @haymarketbooks@AKPressDistro).
No More Heroes traces savior mentality in pop culture, political movements, non-profits incl. Batman, Teach for America, the flood of young white activists to New Orleans after Hurricane Katrina, Occupy Wall Street, #BlackLivesMatter, and the growth of anti sex trafficking orgs.
We talk about how white saviors often begin w/good intentions & where it goes wrong; how different grassroots responses can both help people on the ground & challenge the oppressive systems that undergird racism, poverty, and inequity.
On the new @SexOutLoudRadio, @albtweetin, host of Bodies podcast, talks about the women whose stories she shares & their medical mysteries. It’s a fascinating show where the interviews are deeply personal, yet what we learn has far-reaching consequences beyond 1 person’s life.
We discussed discrimination in health care, the detrimental effects of shame, how women’s symptoms are trivialized, how to be an advocate for your own health care. We delve into her own medical mystery—which involved painful penetration and sex—and the journey to solve it.
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As I’ve been going through old files, I stumbled upon these gems. When I was a baby dyke at Wesleyan in 1992, I was working on my undergraduate senior thesis about butch/femme lesbian identity (my advisor was @TenuredRadical!).
Write a letter to one of my idols, @PatrickCalifia, on the off chance I might get a response. Low & behold, Califia sent a handwritten letter & some unpublished poetry. I practically lost my mind. I’d read everything he had written incl. the unmatched, groundbreaking Macho Sluts.
His writing had such a tremendous effect on my thinking about sex, gender, BDSM, power, and identity. The fact that he took the time to write to me just blew me away. I continued to be a fan, reading every book and piece of writing he’s written.