I also want to talk about how patriarchy affects young men, leading to male aggression online, based on my understanding from the #YuvaaRoadshow.
#Thread #boyslockerroom
1. The top issue for young women is harassment/body shaming.
2. The top one for young men is loneliness.
At the same time, most of them also spoke about acceptance from their female friends & being hyped by their 'girl tribes'.
But privately, or in smaller groups, would open up about being lonely, and even about facing sexual assault themselves.
That if I told my boys gang, they'd think I'm 'a girl' (sigh).
Or how my father (or mother) taught me to be strong, 'manly' and 'get on with it'.
This leads some to feeling lonely, victimised & angry.
And so, when women speak up, they get pissed. Because how dare women stand united, when 'I' don't have anywhere to belong to?
Patriarchy burdens them with 'being a man'
Patriarchy asks them to be 'breadwinners' of the family
Patriarchy tells them to not express what they are going through
Patriarchy boxes them in gendered roles!
As a society, we MUST find a way to help boys understand: if they unite with young women against patriarchy, they won't have to be burdened by it too.
(Received a LOT of hate from young men on my last thread.. this hopefully will help them understand where their own anger stems from.
To them: I understand you are lonely, but if you want to belong to something, find a positive masculinity movement, not a toxic one)