There are 4 things men want from women; and I am talking within the confines of marriage.
Feel free to extend it to relationships, but no. 4 is a sin for single people before God.🙄
The points I will discuss are general rules. There must be a few exceptions, I guess
1. Respect. Men want women that respect them, especially before other people. Men will easily take disrespect from their women in private. But publicly? Nah. It will not go well. Ego and self esteem issues are important to men. It hits at the core of their being
2. Food. It is true that times are changing with feminism and all, but the age long saying that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach has some truths in it. Give him good food. Make sure he has eaten. Some men are so carried away with hustle that they forget to eat.
Personally, I forget to eat on most week days. I remember food only like 6pm, and I have not had anything all day. Give your man food, good food. Use some tactics. Be ingenious. Pack him a food flask. Call him and remind him to eat the food. Food is important ooo
If for whatever reason you can’t cook, don’t like cooking or whatever, and he is ok with it, it does not mean you should use hunger and kill him. DM @Stansbaby. She can arrange excellent meals for you. Keep in the fridge and warm it when there is need. Give your man food!
3. Neatness. Men want their women to be neat. Both personal neatness and environmental neatness. It’s very important. You see personal neatness, it is very important. The body of a woman needs extra more care than that of men. A man can have his bath only once a day, and be cool
But the anatomy of women is such that they need more care. Baths should be at least twice a day. Shave pubic hairs neatly, wear clean decent cloths. Use good fragrances. Men want to breath fresh air when they are around you.
You see your hair? Jesus! You hair must smell good!
I don’t care the amount you spent on that hair, if I come close and it smells awful, I will disappear. A lot of ladies carry smelly hair around. I don’t know why your hair is smells so badly, but you can do something about it. Just be neat please, edakun, ejoor, biko, abeg. 😩🙏
4. Sex. Sex is important but for most men, it is importanter! Some women run around their men, concerned that he could be cheating, but you that God have given him, you don’t give him. You are always tired. You are never in the mood. You’d rather watch Telemundo
A lot of women have gotten it wrong with sex. Except on health grounds, never deny your man sex. Be “approachable”. Be assessible. Be open minded. Try out new things. Make mistakes, practice, learn, get better, have fun!
Do. Not. Tie. Wrapper! *offs mic*
Premarital sex na sin o
Leeme just add a 5th one.
5. Peace of mind. Men want peace of mind from women. The home should be a safe heaven. His safe heaven. After taking on the world, he should come home and rest, and have peace. Don’t be a battle in his war.
Make your home so peaceful that anytime he is away till a certain time, all he wants to do is go home. Don’t nag. Don’t repeat things over and over again. He heard you the first time.
This is a general rule; and admits of a few exceptions or additions.
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On 27th Feb, 2015, men from Awkwuzu SARS crossed the boundary from Anambra State into Enugu State and arrived at Agbalaneyi farm land of Nachi Community, close to Oji River junction, by the Expressway.
The men of SARS saw a group of young men working for their community (installing a worker’s bay canopy). They picked up two young men, Anthony and Godwin. Godwin has a Motorcycle, and it was loaded up and off they went to SARS Awkwuzu.
I just read this article by @Chxta, and wish to add a few comments of my own.
The question is Why Northerners almost always produce the CJN in Nigeria.
Towards the end of Chxta’s article, he suggested that Southern Lawyers choose the Bar, over the Bench. newswirengr.com/2020/10/01/che…
That will not be the truth. Why it appears that way is because Southerners have a lot more successful lawyers, so it follows that they will have more Silks than the North.
Add the fact that more Lawyers one from the South than the North, even though the North is more populous
Now, In the South where I have practiced Law for almost 10 years now, there is a pattern to appointment of Judicial Officers.
First off, Politicians have taken over the process of appointment of Judicial Officers, and that is a very big problem.
When two or more persons agree to do something unlawful, and in the process, something more criminally weighty happens, by the hand of one person, ALL the parties are guilty of the serious crime, even if it was not caused by them directly.
Dear @gtbank, your customers in Enugu are suffering sever hardship, and it appears you don’t care.
Only one branch operates per time in the whole city. The result is clusters of people under the sun. No seats, no canopies.
Why don’t you run your 2 branches to minimize crowd?
It makes absolutely no sense to close down 1 branch and use only 1. No sense! @gtbank
Ordinarily, you have many customers in Enugu. When you run 1 branch, everybody has to come to one branch. How does it help with limiting the spread of Covid 19?
@gtbank Will it joy make better sense if you spread people across your 2 branches?
To show how insensitive you are, you did not provide seats or canopies for people to stay. You leave customers to the elements of sun and rain. @cenbank are you aware of this in Enugu?
One of the shockers I got in my time in the North, Kano state to be precise, was the Almajiri system. The greatest shock was the bomb explosions, but I want to talk about the Almajiri system. #Thread
I did my NYSC in Kano State. I left Enugu for Kano sometime in Nov 2011. It was my first trip to the North, except for Abuja, which some of us don’t consider as North North. You get the point?
After the 3 weeks Orientation camp at Kusala Dam Karaye, it was time to go. Like everybody else, I was itching to leave that compound that had held us caged for 21 days. As we waited to collect our posting Letters for PPA, little did I know that my greatest shock yet was outside
This is a very very very serious issue that needs to be looked at and addressed. A prison with a capacity of 638 holds 2077 persons. Most of them are not convicts. Most, close to 80% are people whose cases are still in court, normally called Awaiting Trial. #Thread A bit long
Section 36(5) of our Constitution presumes that every person charged with an offence is presumed innocent until a court says otherwise. It follows that in the eyes of our Law, more than 1,000 persons in Enugu prison are presumed innocent
The has made provisions for Bail. Bail is the release of a suspect or an accused person temporarily to competent sureties who will guarantee their presence whenever they are needed, either in the police station or in the court.