Thread by @themultibeast

Authentic “amused mastery” is the healthiest path from the red pill anger phase IMO

If you were unfortunate enough to have allowed yourself to devolve into a defeated, emasculated, sexless plowhorse as a result of blue pill conditioning, waking up can be absolutely excruciating

But BLAME and VICTIMHOOD are not part of the red pill experience, no matter what any manosphere red pill mgtow MRA blah blah guru says

That’s your WEAKNESS again. Frustrating how many “red pill aware” guys miss this

Real RP is total ownership of everything that has and will happen FOR you

Total dedication to your own unique mission

Being your own mental point of origin, always. NO exceptions

It’s about seeing how you can’t serve anyone without serving yourself first

So what about women?

They are NOT the cause of any of your pain. They are not the cause of any “problem” you encountered. They are not an “opposing” force, any more than money is

Both are you make them

Both are ever-evolving feminine energies that require MORE of you

Step up

So you got lied to. So what?

So Disney fish hooked you. So what?

So no man showed you anything. So what?

So gynocentric “couples therapy” dumped fuel on your dumpster fire. So what?

Everything has officially done to shit. So what?

Congratulations, you have nothing to lose

IMO, Once you’ve rebuilt yourself enough, “amused mastery” with women becomes your default mental model, naturally

You know her nature. You know what drives her. You know she’s a little “feelings machine”. You know that in a lot of ways she’s like a kid.

But she’s also literally beauty

As a world without a woman is cold, angular, efficient, orderly, sensible, empty-ish, boring-ish, gray.

She’s cute, a little ridiculous, often insane, funny, adorable

Taking her too seriously is lacking nuance

When she gives it her absolute all, to throw you off your game, at best it will register a small dent in your frame. It’s amusing. Because you have mastered yourself.

“Amused mastery” is when she stares at you across the table, and instead of saying “What? What’s wrong honey”? You just wink, smirk, and go back to what you were doing.

Amused mastery is being conscious and aware and observant about how she’s feeling, and listening to THAT, not so much the words flowing out of her mouth.

Amused mastery is doing something small for her because you know she lives in her feelings and you take joy in being able to make her feel things.

When it comes to women, amused mastery is the path away from blame and victimhood and bitterness and cycle repetition

It’s both a practice and a result

As a result, it’s evidence of truly being your own mental point of origin, the safest state for both women and kids