"Babe, this makeover job at Ikorodu makes me uncomfortable. Can you please send someone else?"
"Haba!" She responded.
"This person is my friend and I promised her. Just imagine if I disappoint" She said.
"You can send someone else" He insisted but she was having none of it. She went to the bathroom, came out and saw him praying in the Spirit.
She ignored him.
His prayer intensified and a catchphrase of words kept being repeating as he "skabashed".
"The Lord is my Light... He that dwell in the secret place of the Most High... The Lord shall bless our going out and coming in".
She ignored and dressed up.
As she was stepping out of the room with her box, he pulled her close, laid hands on her and prayed in tongues.
He spoke some words over her which she barely paid attention to, gave her a hug and she stepped out.
It was quite a distance from the Ayobo axis to Ikorodu hence timing was key.
Below are her words:
"Bros, I don enter bus from Oshodi Wey de go Ikorodu Garage.
"The bus stopped at every point to pick passengers but it was when we got to Majidun that a man entered and sat beside me. He kept trying to get my attention but I ignored him since he was speaking Yoruba".
We were approaching the garage hence the bus was scanty yet the man...
Persisted in talking to me. We had gotten to the garage when all of a sudden he said some words, tapped me on the shoulder and said "Tele mi", which means "Follow me".
It felt like I lost control of my body and I came down from the bus to follow him.
I can't explain it
However, it felt like a force kept me in a place. My legs were heavy and I couldn't move.
The man stood and was beckoning to me still saying some incantations.
People noticed and gathered and asked me what was wrong but to my surprise...
I realised I couldn't talk!
I just kept pointing but when people looked at the direction I was pointing to, they couldn't pick who I was pointing at.
I pulled out my phone to call my husband but I couldn't speak so a lady took it and explained to him.
My husband told the woman to put the phone in my ears and he said "In the name of Jesus, I break that enchantment and declare your body fit for use".
Immediately, I noticed my tongue could move and I spoke some words and began speaking rapidly.
Make-up, I no do again.
Wedding, I no go again.
Since that day, I have learnt to listen and obey even when I don't understand.
Let me state here that her husband wasn't a Pastor but a regular brother who understood supernatural realities.
I wrote a tweet on Husbands laying hands on the head of their wives and praying for them and not the other way round.
A young lady came for the tweet and because she lacked understanding of the tweet said a whole lot. I still insist, there is a spiritual authority a husband...
... has over his wife.
Many people don't know what their wives go through daily and why a spiritual cover is important.
Wives can give you first hand examples of the emotional turmoil they go through on a daily basis. Is it childbearing? Is it nurturing? Menopause?
Fear of rape? Domestic violence?
The mere fact that she's a woman is even a challenge talk less of a wife.
Husbands, we need to do better. The man of God must be completely equipped and that means in all things. You don't actually think that money is everything?
Sometimes, a hug and I love you is all they need to smile (with lots of gifts and quality time and also batman errands...lol).
Husbands, be the head and cover your wives. Let your children see the legacies you are leaving them with especially on how you treat your wife.
Remember, the children will one day leave and all you have is just that wife.
Apostle Paul said in 1 Cor 13:11 "When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me".
It is time for husbands to stop acting like boys. Throwing tantrums at God when things don't go your way. Ending up in a beer parlour whilst your wife ends up in the church praying and beseeching God.
It is time to stop acting like a child and put away childhood.
There's this young couple I have known for a while. I see the way they dote on each other.
It is very rare you see the husband without the wife and even if the wife appeared first, the husband was never far behind.
During church service you would see them eyeing each other.
I recall during a Sunday Service in which his wife was to take the Bible Reading, I could remember him blowing her a phantom kiss as she climbed the pulpit.
It was her blush and smile that made me look at him only to see him making faces at her.
It was beautiful.
As Men's fellowship leader back then, I teased him a lot and told him in all honesty how many men are learning how to treat their wives.
He sighed and said "Bro., it was not always like that initially. Our first year as a married couple was a disaster".
Earlier this morning, I had just finished ministering the baptism of the Holy Spirit to a wonderful sister. I was meditating on certain things when I received a call from someone.
I have known this lady for years and never for once have I heard her cry.
She literally broke down
She was tired of everything and she said that much. She lived in a neighbourhood where everyone believed that living in a big house, means you're the cause of their problems.
Anxiety had set in and fear had a fierce grip on her.
She sobbed, heavily and It weighed me down.
I didn't even know what to say but I told her I would come see her, and I did.
We talked at length and as she spoke, I saw how many women out there are afraid of so many things. The lockdown did a job on many people and coming out, they haven't adjusted.
The gospel to many is only about what they can receive from God. It’s sad when you see a Believer give God ultimatum to fulfill their desire which in many case is money as a condition for their service.
This should never be and should not be heard from a Believer.
It is the quest for blessing that you hear many say:
“I have prayed and fasted but God has refused to bless me”.
They make it sound like God has not done His part by declaring us blessed just because by means of Christ, we are!
Whatever you cast your eyes upon is exactly what has power over you.
If you seek God because of money, then money has dominion over you but the minute you seek God just because - He is, then you have everything.
In these few years of ministry, I have come across quite a number of people with different desires whenever we talk.
There are those who are seeking to be blessed and like I’ve seen, once they are blessed, excuses to serve God starts popping up.
It sad to see.
However, the people I have always enjoyed praying with are those who simply want more - more of God, more of the Holy Spirit, more from their relationship with the Holy Spirit.
They don’t thirst for anything but God.
I call them God Chasers.
All they desire is God’s will.
This was how I met MB after church service after I watched her ministration during Sunday Service in my parish.
“People won’t know that such a tiny frame carries so much power” I teased.
She laughs.
“However, I want more. How do I get it?” She asks.
In the church I worshipped with in the past, I observed that during the intercessory prayers, people don’t just mumble words while many just sit and form distracted.
It didn’t make sense.
As a matter of fact, it was the women that even prayed the most.
I also observed a trend and it was like this: when people weren’t praying, the minister leading the prayer begins to cajole people to pray with words like...
“It’s only the living that can praise God”
“What if you had died from accident?”
“I know of a man/woman...
“...who trailer crushed and died on the spot and I shouted Baba... have mercy on me”.
It works! All the time 🤣.
Why did it work? Because it put the fear of dying in your mind.
Why does it bother you? Because you think if you die in your sin, na hell.
"Brother Nikolai, I would like to see you after the service for a brief discussion".
"No problem". Replies Brother Nikolai.
Service ends and we find a place to sit and talk.
"Brother, I want to know how you and your wife flow so easily in the Spirit?"
"...I see the ease at which both of you flow in tongues and I really want this so much. I have been a worship minister for years and even have three albums yet I cannot touch that realm you both touch.
When you and your wife give comments during midweek service..."
"...I keep wondering if this is the gospel I live because you both speak with so much love and show a reality I feel is only for GO. How can I become like you?"
Brother Nikolai responds "The question should be - how can you become like Christ. It is Him you must become".