7). Not as famous as his cousin Michael, artist Paul Winner was one my best friends despite a 40-year age gap
When he looked at the world he saw it in all its wonder & absurdity
The words on his headstone
“Paul Winner. Dream conductor”
His motto
“You can if you think you can”.
8/. This year also saw the deaths of music legends including Bill Withers, Little Richard, Kenny Rogers, Mory Kante, Peter Green, Joseph Shabalala, Manu Dibango, Cristina, Florian Schneider, Bunny Lee and Toots Hibbert, frontman of Toots and the Maytals.
9/. The deaths of legends Kirk Douglas, Max von Sydow, Carl Reiner, Ian Holm, Brian Dennehy, Olivia de Havilland & Sean Connery, feel like an end of an era
The world is sadder without Jerry Stiller, Tim Brooke-Taylor, Nicholas Parsons (& Jeremy Hardy).
1/. A few weeks after the #Brexit referendum, I tweeted that it felt as if Britain had cut itself adrift & that we were floating, rudderless, on a raft with a donkey (our leaders), a monkey (our future leaders), a hyena (the scavengers) mayhem) & a vicious tiger (the far right).
2/. Brexit, if felt, had unleashed a dark genie from a bottle & would not go back in...and looking back, perhaps - like Trump in the US - that was the intention
Democracy, which depends on shared truths, was in retreat, & autocracy, which depends on shared lies, was on the march
3/. We’d had enough of experts
Facts were bundled aside by opinion & national pride was whipped into patriotic fervor with rampant slogans about sovereignty & taking back control
Reasoned argument & gentle humour could do nothing against this onslaught.
"The govt assured us that the #COVID datastore would be unwound at the end of the pandemic & the data destroyed. They also said any extension would go out to public tender.
2/. I’m not a body language expert, but @uksciencechief’s habit of adjusting his glasses, looking away & um-Ing & ah-ing whenever he’s asked a penetrating question is getting wearily familiar.
Here is Vallance being questioned by @Jeremy_Hunt in May.
3/. In July, Vallance claimed he couldn't remember which date SAGE called for lockdown!
1/. “If you’re with someone you love hold them close. If you can’t be with someone you love or you’ve lost someone you love, take a moment after reading this. Close your eyes. Breath. And on think them. Think of their laugh, their touch. their soul."
These ladybirds made me cry.
2/. I’d cycled to Totteridge ystdy & spotted the ladybirds on a gravestone
It was a beautiful day
Beside the grave was a 2,000 year old yew tree
The tree - thought to be the oldest living thing in London - got me thinking about mortality & all the grief that this year has seen
3/. “The world’s more full of weeping than he can understand” (Yeats)
There is a lot of grief at the moment
Grief is important. It’s the flip side of love.
The more you deeply you love, the more deeply you must grieve
“He postpones necessary but unpalatable decisions, like a child pushing vegetables around a plate. He wants to be liked. He has no qualm about betraying people behind their backs, but he has a horror of upsetting them to their faces.” @rafaelbehr on the PM theguardian.com/commentisfree/…
2/. He loves to be upbeat
On 19/3 he said:
“We can turn the tide in 12 weeks. I’m absolutely confident that we can send coronavirus packing”
Earlier in the month, he boasted of shaking hands with #COVID patients
Days later, he was in hospital himself
3/. This interview shows is that the bumbling, tousled-hair comedy character, we’ve been watching for the last decade, is just that: a character
It also shows his approach to “politics & human nature”: that you can “make a good case for anything at all”.