To be a man whom cannot be manipulated by a woman you must
1. Be sexually in-exclusive 2. Be Non monogamous 3. Not get jealous 4. Not be controlling 5. Have the ability to drop her 6. Have a life separate from her
When a woman cannot manipulate you, she is forced to be genuine
Be sexually inexclusive
No woman can control you with her body. If she no wan do, ugo find anoda babe wey go satisfy you
Be Non monogamous and allow her to be too
In such a situation you don't have to cheat. If she's still with you, she can't complain, neither can she ruin your life, neither do you have to apologize for being a man
Don't get jealous
She can't use another man to manipulate you
Don't try to control her life or decisions. At the highest, inspire certain actions by leading
You won't be emotionally tied down to her decisions and actions
When you're not emotionally outcome dependent to what she does, she can't control you
Soft/hard next her if she becomes problematic so she knows you can drop or leave her at the slightest sign of too much stress
Learn to live your life separately from her
She can't manipulate you with her absence
All these things matter even in long term, serious relationships
Your frame must be tight
When your frame is tight and rock-solid...then you can get serious with a girl
When your frame is tight, you can spend on her more
When your frame is tight you can tell her you love her
When your frame is tight you can text and call everyday without being taken advantage of
All those real relationship stuff are only for women whom have been in your frame long enough to appreciate WHEN you finally let them in
When someone knows you can do without them, they can't play games anymore, they can't treat you anyhow
And that is key to a good relationship
The ability to enjoy her to the fullest yet be fine if you never see her again
Masculinity isn't defined by culture, society or tradition. Masculinity isn't watching football, drinking beer, smoking cigars or playing sports. Masculinity is a set of behaviors and physical traits that simply separates you from a woman.
Masculinity is your penis. Masculinity is your confidence. Your self control. Your controlled aggressiveness. Your ability to endure hardships. Your ability to persevere in times of struggle. Your ability to improvise. Masculinity is your beard and broad shoulders.
Don't let society dictate to you what masculinity is. You're not less of a man if you want to cook or clean. You're less of a man when you behave like a woman. When you sway your hips. When you whine and bitch. When you easily crumble under stress. When you're over emotional.
A lot of men take things too personal. They complain that the girl is at fault when really they're just touchy, insecure and emotional guys. You can't have long term, low drama relationships with women if you don't learn emotional control.
You can't have long term, low drama relationships if you get furiously jealous every time she talks to another guy.
If you explode into a million pieces every time she says something you don't like.
If you always think you're in love with a woman when really you have Oneitis
When a guy comes to me for advise about a particular woman, I've noticed that a good deal of you simply have fragile egos. Everything upsets you. Everything gets to you.
Your prissy little feelings are always being hurt...