Been thinking that outside of one’s main job (that pays the bills), one should work on things that are timeless.
(a short thread on this)
1/ Think of happiness as not one emotion, but rather a label for a set of emotions.
Sometimes we’re happy that we ate the ice cream, other times we’re happy about the oncoming trip and sometimes we’re happy about finishing a project that took some work.
2/ In that sense, rather than chasing “more happiness”, consider creating “portfolio of happinesses”.
Do things that increase the variety of types of happiness you can experience.
3/ One’s main job is always about the here-and-now. You get paid for the value you create and you feel happy and worthy about it.
You can call this the “in the moment” happiness.
But what about “reflective” happiness?
4/ What about the fact that if all you’ve had is “in-the-moment” happiness, when you look back at the long arc of your life, all you find is fleeting moments of happiness?
5/ We all recognise that there’s a happiness in doing things that matter in the long term.
Think kids, inventions, art, music and so on.
Creation of these things give a different kind of happiness because we know they’ll outlive us.
6/ A Classic mistake with advice on how to be happy is to think in binary.
Pick one:
a) Be here-and-now. Enjoy the present moment
b) Minimize future regret. Work on things that matter
But why should you pick one?
Why not pick both?
7/ You can pick both and just like picking two stocks instead of one, you can make your portfolio of happiness less volatile.
In your job, work on something that grounds you to the present moment.
But outside it, consider building something you’d be proud of 50 years from now.
8/ That’s it.
Are you building something that’s timeless?
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The fact that dreams exist prove that reality is a hallucination conjured by brain.
(a short thread about this idea)
1/ The only difference between hallucinations while we are awake and while asleep is that the former is constrained by our environment while the latter is constrained by possibilities.
2/ While acting in the world, it makes sense for brain to model the outside world to know what can kill it, while sleep is a relatively safer space for it ans hence relatively less need to model the external constraints.
Determined to never let a crisis go to waste, I and rest of the leaders at @wingify reflected on how the year went by for us and the lessons that stood out.
I decided that it’ll be a good idea to publicly share these learnings, so here they are.
2/ Then a caveat:
As you know professional and personal dimensions can differ widely, these ones are for the professional context only. invertedpassion.com/professional-s…
This year has given me many personal lessons too but they’re not documented in this thread.
b) launch a product that people desire but with no significant advantage over established competitors (hence give no strong reason for a customer to switch away).
2/ These two failure modes have their analogous success modes:
a) culture-led startup success where a new desire is discovered and fulfilled;
b) technology-led startup success where new technology is used to fulfill an existing desire.