What’s it like to be submissive?

(Besides, awesome.)

Submission creates peace.

It amplifies the natural harmony between masculine and feminine.
1/
I am in my most feminine when He is leading and I am following.

The more He leads, the more deeply masculine He becomes.

And the easier it is for me to submit to Him.

A very real, positive reinforcement cycle.

2/
While I may be more of an over thinker than most girls (hamsters), all have fifty different things going on in their brain at any given time.
Issues with to-do lists, work, housekeeping, makeup, relationships, etc.

All of these tangled thoughts generate a level of anxiety.
3/
Some girls are more anxious than others.

Some are more aware of their anxiety than others.

But it exists as constant ‘white noise,’ whether consciously aware or not.
4/
Submitting to a Dominant Man quiets the ever present white noise.

When serving a true Dominant sexually, there is no room in one’s brain for starfish-sex and checking lists.

All attention is on Him.

As it should be.
5/
Serving a Dominant Man outside the bedroom provides the same result.

There is no room for rumination when the house must be clean, dinner prepared, and His drink refilled.

Pleasing Him is a full time “job.”

And it should occupy one’s ENTIRE brain.

6/
When a Dominant Man provides the strong, *calm* leadership and guidance of which He is capable, He creates SECURITY.

The more security He provides, the more deeply possible is her submission.

I am not referring to financial security.
7/
Whether she knows it or not, every woman craves security.

If the guy she is with does not provide it (through weak or inconsistent leadership), she will seek it elsewhere. Either from another man or by trying to provide it for herself.

This is how feminism started.
8/
The StrongIndependentWoman™️ may FEEL secure by providing her own leadership.

But she is lying to herself.

If a Dominant Man appeared who could take away the burden of all that decision-making, she would only feel RELIEF.
9/
And so that is what submission feels like:
•Relief
•Security
•Peace

A Dominant Man who can engender those feelings is very valuable indeed.

/END

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As in, how can I continue to improve myself to make His life better/easier/more fun?
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I’m not worried about getting replaced.

I am completely secure and at peace, whether He is with me or with someone else.

Not because I have Him “under control,” or wrapped around my finger but rather, it is entirely on ME whether I am serving Him to the best of my ability.
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I know that what I control is my own behavior.

There is always room for improvement, but I have set the bar high... for myself.

On purpose.

I knew from the outset that I would not do well as a #2, and I told Him exactly that.
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I’ve posted quite a bit about the fact that a feminine woman should be ‘willing to support her man’ as part of the equation to reach high value status.

It’s a vague concept, and it seems like specific examples would be useful...

THREAD 1/
First, a high value man with a strong frame is not going to ask for your support.

He should *never* have to do that.

(Besides, you’ll *both* hate where that ends up, as it kills attraction.)
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Let’s start with some easy ways to support Him:

•Maximize your looks at all times.

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At home, you’ll increase His desire for you, which is a total win-win.
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Short answer:
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The root of nearly all intersexual problems occurs when one (or both) attempt to be something they aren’t.
A masculine woman will *always* be unhappy in a relationship.
So will a feminine man.
And they won’t understand why.
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Submission, when done correctly, is NOT manipulative.

It is simply the natural state of a woman.

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I was asked, "Are lots of women really into rough sex (facef*cking, hair-pulling, choking, etc.)? Or they just won't admit it?" and I thought it would make an interesting discussion topic. (Thanks @OCBo9 )

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Disclaimers:
a) I'm not writing *on behalf of* all women, so don't special snowflake me or gripe about generalizations;
b) I identify as a sub (submissive), but that's a relatively recent addition to my life after years of vanilla sex.

In other words, your results may vary.
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There are actually 2 parts to this subject:
1. What is rough sex?
2. Do women enjoy it?
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There are a lot of guys out there who may not realize they come off as creepy to girls.
I agree, taking pickup advice from a girl is asking the fish, not the fisherman, but in this case, it might help to hear from the fish what major turn-offs are.

How Not To Be Creepy
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We react by how we *feel.*
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Space
When you approach a girl, make sure to leave an ‘exit’ in an least three directions.
Putting your hand on a wall and trapping us against it is super creepy.
We may laugh and seem like we are enjoying, but that is a defense mechanism.
Feeling physically trapped is scary.
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Ladies,
What can you provide your man that he can't get anywhere else?

It isn't your p*ssy. Guarantee there's women out there with tighter, wetter, better p*ssies than yours.
It isn't your tits, either. Plenty of other women have either better genetics or more money.

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You say you've never had complaints about your blowjobs?
Absolute meaningless crap.
No man is going to complain about a blowjob, unless you're objectively awful at it or cause pain.
Anything above that ultra-low bar won't generate a complaint.
It ain't your blowjob skills.
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Besides, a man can get a better blowjob than you can provide from a professional who's had wayyy more practice than you.

If you're noticing a theme here, it's that all the emphasis you've placed on your sacred p*ssy/sex skills means fuck all to a man, esp. a high value man.
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