1. It is sunnah to marry older women.
2. It is sunnah to marry a divorced person.
3. It is sunnah to marry a widow.
4. It is sunnah to help women with household chores, such as cooking, cleaning, washing, etc.
5. Put food in your wife's mouth as an expression of love. (classified as a form of charity)
6. It is sunnah to express your love, gratitude and respect to your wife.
7. It is sunnah to forgive her for her mistakes.
8. It is the sunnah to keep your wife looking good, to gift her, kiss her, foreplay with her, give her a seperate housing if you can afford it.
9. It is a sunnah to try to know your wife's feelings and to comfort her when she needs it.
10. It is a sunnah to have fun together. (running, storytelling, sharing a happy occasion with her are well known examples)
11. It is the sunnah to lie down and relax in your wife's lap, to smile at her, to compliment her, to flirt with her and let her play with your beard.
12. It is sunnah to call your wife with beautiful names.
13. It is a sunnah not to divulge her secrets to family or friends.
14. It is the sunnah to love and respect the parents of one's wife.
15. It is the sunnah to protect your wife and your children from your toxic family or your mother and father if they are abusing her.
Let us practice the sunnah in its entirety and not to measure.
π€² May Allah bless Muslim women with Qawwam who fears Allah - Allahumma ameen!
The meaning of a Qawwam is a man who protects you financially, physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Who literally takes you under the fortress of his protection.
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60 CHARACTERISTICS OF THE BEARERS & WOMEN OF QURAN
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1. The first matter that it befits her to employ is taqwa (fear) of Allah secretly and openly, by exercising caution (wara') with regards to the sources of his food, drink, dress and earnings.
2. She is perceptive about her time and the corruptions of its people, that she may beware of them regarding her religion.
3. She concentrates on her own situation, having the aspiration to reform whatever is corrupt in her affairs, guarding her tongue and choosing her words.
Have you noticed when you meet a particular brother or sister for the first time, you get along with them instantly. You agree on most things, you feel comfortable in their presence and most importantly you talk to them as if you have known them for years.
You even express yourself in a way that would take you months or even years with other people. You don't hold back what you want to say and can express yourself freely in their presence.
After meeting them a few times you have a firm attachment to them and proudly proclaim them to be your brother or sister.
The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) described why this happens.
Sisters if you don't want to work after marriage and support your spouse financially please explicitly state this to your future spouse and their family.
I have come to know that men and their families are seaching for working women so that they can come into their family and support the family at large especially with finances.
Islamically women have no such duty or responsibility. If a woman earns it's her own money.
If she decides to support her husband and his family that's a good deed but not an obligation and she cannot be forced or guilt tripped into doing this.
There are men and families who need women to work and support the household.
Once, when Umar bin al-Khattab (Ψ±ΨΆΩ Ψ§ΩΩΩ ΨΉΩΩ) was walking in the market, he passed by a man who was supplicating,
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βO Allah, make me from the few! O Allah make me from the few!β
So βUmar said to him, βWhere did you get this Dua from?β And the man said, βAllah in His Book says:
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βAnd few of My servants are grateful.β (Qurβan 34:13)β
So βUmar wept and admonished himself, βThe people are more knowledgeable than you, O Umar! O Allah make us from Your βfewβ servants.β
Sometimes when you advise someone to leave a sin, they respond with βBut everybody does it, itβs not just me!β
Thereβs been somewhat of an uproar over Mohammad Salah (football player) celebrating Christmas, and many Muslims are upset.
I donβt wish to discuss what he did at this point as itβs obvious what he did was utterly wrong,
but what shocks me is why Muslims make worldly celebrities as their role model in dΔ«n.
The best role model is our beloved Prophet ο·Ί, and we donβt need anyone else.
Thus, it is vital for us Muslims to learn our creed & dΔ«n in such a manner that if all the Muslims celebrities not only celebrated Christmas, but hypothetically left Islam - and AllΔhβs refuge is sought -