Friends, seriously, I want you to listen carefully to these young guys inside the Capital. The Capital event involved more: men needing affectionate validation that they matter. Almost cried listening to this. Watch the hugging at the end. Long hugs. Why?
America’s elites have spent the past 10+ years disparaging, expressing contempt for, & mocking working class/lower class whites. This guy is from Covington, VA. Ave. income: $21,243. 81.5% white. Don’t blame all of this on “they’re just Trump racists.” bestplaces.net/economy/city/v…
In 1 sense, they aren’t behaving much differently than urban men who are also the recipients of disparaging labels “thugs,” social contempt by elites, etc. One difference: urban men are also dehumanized by progressive paternalism & infantilization trapping them in “programs.”
Fact: hurt men, hurt others. It doesn’t matter if they’re white or men of color. Social disgust, dehumanizing paternalism, stigmatyping as “evil,” etc. all tend to end the same: men’s violence. Men’s love language is respect. “Patriot,” “Beast,” “Young King,” function the same.
Politicians nor left/right pundits get it. Stigmatizing/infantilizing lower income residents makes the entire country worse off. If we were smart, we’d be working hard to celebrate the dignity of those aren’t advantaged enough to love Bernie or Charlie Kirk on college campuses.
What does Levi hear at the end, “I love you!” Then Levi rests his head on the other guy’s shoulder. This means the back of Levi’s head was touching the other guy’s neck as they embraced. Levi’s response to affirmation was affection. Think about that. Think.About.That.

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7 Dec 20
It's really heartbreaking to see so many hard-working single moms carry their sons into college & have the lads fizzle out the first semester. Here's often why: the guys lack internal motivation. It never had a chance to develop. When he leaves home, he *must* to have it!
I've read too much psych data & I know what's going on. I see the guys with strong father relationships breeze through the 1st semester & guys from divorce limping. It's generally the pattern. All these guys need a 25-to-40 year-old guy to meet with them semi-regularly.
The data shows that a guy's internal motivation drive is usually activated by being invested in one-on-one by someone else, esp. a father/big brother figure. Everyone needs someone who believes in them. Everyone. Here's what I see over and over and over and over and over again:
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7 Dec 20
The song before I preached in Harlem yesterday at GZHBC. Earlier in my career, I was encouraged to turn my back on the black church for the multi-ethnic dream but I always resisted b/c I needed actual Big God theology not limited to the micro-concerns of Reformed Evangelicalism.
To my young black evangelical brothers & sisters, do not let them buy your allegiance away from caring about the black experience & the black church. If the black church didn’t exist, you wouldn’t be free to enjoy the “we’re so glad you’re here” evangelical side-hug.
And walk away if they recruit you out of the black community but only give you multi-ethnic $$$ & won’t long-term fund a black-focussed project (that’s not just about poverty). A white-focussed hipster church of urban gentrifiers is praised & so should black-focussed mission.
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I can see that this book could be really amazing if I could keep up with the English but after the 2nd chapter I gave up. Words like dichotomy, soteriological, connote,...these are words found on just the first few pages.
[The] writer assumes that you know what these things are and talks as if you already have a background in these subjects. Also, another thing that is rather annoying, and it's not just this book but other books do this too, when the book refers to a bible passage,
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I've seen this pattern for 25 years in cities and states all over the country in Atlanta, St. Louis, Maryland, Virginia, etc. I'm not making this up. I am not lying and just because you haven't heard these stories doesn't mean it didn't happen. Here's one example in the DC area.
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The SBC is smarter about planting black churches than the PCA. In 1995, I urged PCA leaders to focus on the black middle class & HBCUs. To date 1% of PCA ministers are black. Why? B/C the “racial reconciliation” subculture redirected attention to black inner-cities. Didn’t work.
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