Thread by @GbengaWemimo

Rather than cheat on your spouse, the honourable thing to do is quit the marriage
I know many people would rather want to eat their cake and have it, in principle, people who do that are scums and cheats
Either you are the husband or the wife, you have a duty to yourself to stay

faithful to your spouse regardless of the circumstances or the situation you find yourself in
If the situation is such that you cannot cope with the relationship, the best thing to do is walk out and stay out.
A lady came to my office claiming her husband was a two minute man and

the lack of sexual satisfaction had almost driven her into the street in search of a lover
She hadn't done anything yet...
She was just considering it because of the frustration the quick ejaculation issue the husband has was causing her
She made sure she dragged her husband to

my office too
She had been talking to him about it and she really wanted him to take her serious on the issue so that they can address it
Her husband didn't form
He acknowledged that he had a challenge and had tried so much to address it to no avail
They have a daughter and the

husband was willing to do anything to keep his home
His openness and sincerity impressed me
Many men do not like to talk about their sexuality or deficiency in that area because they assume it belittles them
He was not like most men
I asked him a salient question that day
I said

if he were to lose an arm or a leg and he had the means to get a prosthetics part to replace that which he lost to an accident, would he do it?
He said yes
He said it might not be the same thing but he would try to live his life as comfortably as possible
I loved his answer and I

went on to explain to him what i believe the two of them could do to handle the sexual frustration and satisfy his wife
He said to me afterward "I don't believe a man of God can be so practical and unreligious"
I laughed and prayed with the two of them
The wife got pregnant again

a few weeks later (She never had issues with conceiving, only that he delivers the payload too early and leaves her gnashing her teeth. For that reason, she shut the factory while he worked on getting better but after the cousel the factory was reopened)
That is how couples work

out issues
When i see some of the readers of gbengawemimo.com reading some stories and commenting that sexually frustrated women would most likely start cheating, i cringe.
Cheating is always an option but not to the honourable of godly
Rather than cheat, quit!
I hate the

idea of pretending to be what you are not in the name of keeping up appearances
Many homes are like that nowadays
Wife is sleeping with other sexual partners
Husband is sleeping with other sexual partners and both are wearing a ring and pretending to fool everybody by acting

married
Lying in words is when you say things you don't mean to honour or know to be untrue
Lying in action is when you are not something and you claim to be it
A broken marriage is far better than a sham of a marriage
The implication of unfaithfulness is very far-reaching and

dire
I have seen on over twenty occasions how the implication of unfaithful marriages hit some people and drained life out of them
A man recently found out his children belonged to his uncle (his father's younger brother)
The uncle died and wrote it boldly in his will
This was a

nineteen years old marriage
His wife had always maintained she was faithful even when he suspected something could have transpired between her and his uncle
He had to take everything in faith
He died a month after the reading of the will
He died at the age of forty-eight
He was a

lecturer and a broken man
The children hated their mother
They also found out the truth the wrong way and blamed their mother for putting them in that situation without preparing them for it
Their mother denied it, told them the uncle was a bitter man who was lying from the grave

in order to destroy their lives
The children decided to conduct a paternity test to find out the truth
The woman ran to the office of the Brother in Jeans & T-shirt
She wanted the Holy Spirit to intervene and change the children's DNA to their biological father's DNA so that she

wont have to face the consequences
A consequence she should have faced right at the beginning by walking out of the marriage or refusing to cheat
She was still looking for the path of the least pain
Being a cheat is a NO!
If you're reading this and you're already cheating on your

spouse, I am glad to announce to you that you will not get away with it
Unfaithfulness breeds contempt and mistrust
Unfaithful spouses end up begging to be loved and respected even by their own children
Their end always felt like the end of Judas
When you get to a point when your

children are working very hard not to be like you...
It is best to do the right thing at the right time.
If you have come to dislike or disdain your partner to the point where you can cheat on him or her, you should just call a meeting and say "Enough is enough"
To stay married

while you continue to cheat says a lot about the kind of person you are.
I met a young man who caught his girlfriend red-handed while cheating on him
Everybody said "If i am in your shoes, i will cheat back"
He said "Her wrongdoing cannot compel me to act wrongly. I will not be

motivated to act simply because she did!"
That young man won my respect for life
I have equally met ladies and guys who said "I cheated on him/her because he cheated on me first"
I found that excuse to be dumb
You could have just walked away rather than become into a slime pit

Finally, there was a guy called Diran who caught his babe cheating and decided to cheat back
This happened in Ibadan when i was a teenager
Unfortunately for him, the lady he got to cheat with was the fourth wife of a herbalist
He hit something called "Magun"
That thunderbolt cut

short his life
If he was wise enough to see beyond the pain of being cheated on to the point where he realized that the cheat was actually the biggest loser, he would still be alive now and most probably have a family of his own and a wonderful life
When you hear married men and

women acting as if Cheating is the way out of a frustrating marriage, just tell yourself you are hearing voices from the open grave
Unfaithful spouses are death traps
The dangers lurking in between their legs are deeper than sheol
Marriage is honourable
Being a cheat is shameful!

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