Mistake 1:
Not valuing your time and treating it like its free
We dont know how much is our per hour cost.
We dont know how much do we ACTUALLY spend, when we watch Netflix 2hrs/day
We dont know how much should we charge for a project
We dont understand how our time = money
Mistake 2:
Spending your time on things that are easy to measure money-wise
We will spend half a day travelling to one end of the city, to save Rs. 1000, because we know we will conclusively save that amount
But we won't spend 2 hours preparing for our salary negotiation!
Mistake 3:
Taking too many loans
We over-index on our future earnings.
And spend more today, than we can afford today.
Loans tie us down.
They increase our burn rate.
They make us risk-averse.
They make us feel like we are stuck!
Mistake 4:
Believing that our income is capped
Our income is not capped. There is no upper limit to how much we can earn.
Instead, it is our spending that is capped. We have to spend a bare minimum to live, to survive.
Instead of reducing expenses, focus on increasing income
Mistake 5:
Trying to time the market
Market is too high. Let it fall.
Market is low. Right time to buy.
No one knows the highs or lows of a market. The best way to invest over a long term, is to invest regularly. Irrespective of the price at that time.
Mistake 6:
Investing because of FOMO
Everyone is investing in Bitcoin. I should too.
Everyone is selling Bitcoin. I should too.
Everyone is buying ITC. I should too
Everyone is selling ITC. I should too
Everyone is NOT you!
Invest on your beliefs and research and appetite.
Mistake 7:
Renting your time and not owning any assets
Everyone in a job isn't going to create supernormal wealth.
Because we have to spend time working, to earn.
Assets, on the other hand, make money, even when we sleep.
Start a company. Own stocks. Create rental income.
Mistake 8:
Investing late
20s is the time to have fun. Will start investing in the 30s.
30s is the time to build a family and enjoy. Will start investing in the 40s.
The right time to start investing was when you turned 18.
The next best time is TODAY.
Mistake 9:
Comparing your money to others
Money, for most of us, is an outcome. Not an input.
It is the result of the decisions we have made, not the reason for the decisions we made.
Compare the decisions people made to get to their money.
Comparing the outcome, won't help!
Mistake 10:
Running after money
Money gives you freedom.
Freedom is a privilege.
But the minute we run after money, we are not free anymore.
Use money to earn your freedom.
Don't give up your freedom to earn money.
Bonus:
Not taking risks, when you can
In our 20s, when we have little to lose. And even if we do lose, we have time to recover.
Lesser so in our 30s/40s
That's why our parents love FDs.
But we shouldn't.
Take risks early on.
And don't worry about the short term ups and downs.
I wish money was a topic that our parents spoke about, or our schools/colleges did justice to.
In the absence of it, we are left to learn from those who have made mistakes and realized what to do.
Or make those same mistakes ourselves.
Here is a thread on the mistakes I made with my money
1.
Your grades in college are not going to define your life.
The first company you work for is not going to define your life.
Your first pay package is not going to define your life.
2. Who and why you decide to spend your life with - is one of the biggest decisions you will make in your life.
Uncomfortable Truth 1:
Life has no purpose.
We came from nothing. And once we are gone there will be nothing.
No one will remember us beyond a few years or decades.
And yet we will spend every second of our life wondering what people think of us!
Uncomfortable Truth 2:
Where you were born, who you were born to and when you were born, has the highest correlation to where you will end up in life.
Your opportunities, your privileges, your worldview, all stemmed from this lucky event that you had no role to play with.
Lie 1:
If you don't settle in your 20s, you are gone!
This is the decade.
You don't get another chance.
Study fast, get a job, get married, kids, that car, that house.
Quickly!
Time's running.
Look at everyone else doing it!
Lie 2:
People who are poor are lazy.
People who are rich are hardworking.
It is your fault if you haven't made it in life.
Look at everyone else who made it.
There is nothing granted or gifted in life.