Thread by @earthworkrr

Yesterday on the TEAM platform, we had fun when I endlessly teased the younger men who were unmarried and not in a relationship.

It was a tease but deep down, I was serious. I called them - Set Ndi "God told me to tell you" and in my years as a Believer I know this -

... many young men aren't trying in their steps in wooing a woman and they don't even want to learn.

I was sharing on Zoom in I programme I was invited to speak, on how I spoke to my wife and the things I did to win her over.

The fact that God spoke didn't stop me...

...playing my part. I wrote poems, love letters and prayers as a way of assuring her of the future God has planned for us.

My wife still has those letters today and still reads them to me (where I form hard guy but deep down, I'm hailing myself..lol).

It still makes her smile.

There's a way you speak to a woman that makes her blossom. Compliments, gifts and that gentlemanly show of affection in public.

Don't let the world put you in a standard.

Do you want to learn how to love? Read the Book of the Songs of Solomon.

Yes, it is true that God has spoken to you but you would still have to prove to that woman by making an effort to keep her.

Women like such things.

However, is it only men that should make the effort?

Tomorrow we continue.

@earthworkrr

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