“Its amazing how it affects & destroys almost every aspect of your life.
Relationships, depression & loneliness etc.
Porn affects all these things and people don't realize it.”
I saw this & messaged two of my best friends I was done!
Men seeking other men for help is a taboo thing & shouldn’t be!
I told 2 brothers that night, I never thought I had a problem, it was just occasional, all guys did it...
That was a lie,
It was harmful!
I came clean & told them.
It was a weight off my chest!
I wasn’t alone now!
4) You’ll hate this, but if you want to quit, do what it takes.
Tell your wife or S/O.
It’s not easy.
Real men, honorable ones, like you want to become do hard things.
I told my wife the truth.
I wanted her to be the only woman I ever:
-looked at
-fantasized about
-dreamt of
This was so difficult to bring up.
I didn’t know any porn stars names or have sites I frequented,
but if we hadn’t 👉👌🔥 in a while I went there.
I let her know this & let her know I never would again!!
She was hurt a bit honestly,
But appreciated me for being vulnerable.
For the record, we’ve been together over 7 years.
Even with
✅Corona virus
✅2 babies & a big
✅More change than ever
Since giving up all images & videos, it is better than our honeymoon at my home!❤️🔥
She knows she is my queen!
I only want her forever!
It’s worth it men!!
5) Decide & don’t go back!!
Sounds easy right.
It is!!!
You’re a human capable every moment of choice.
🔥You can decide right now I’ll never view this again & one committed decision can change your entire life!
You aren’t a slave to anything!
Decide right now you are free!!
✅Higher libido
✅Better intimacy
✅More authentic
✅Greater confidence
✅Honoring your faith
✅Integrity to yourself
✅Greater mental clarity
✅Feel healthier than ever
✅More time to WIN real life
✅Your🍆won’t go limp later in life
✅Become the MAN with impulse control
Since stopping I’ve:
-crushed side hustles & written a book
-become a 100x better husband & dad
-my faith has 100x since I don’t hide from God in shame anymore
-my marriage has soared & gone to new heights
I miss it 0%
Today is your day!
Draw your line!!
I believe in you👌🐉❤️
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When I decided to share here I knew I wanted to be authentic & share the real me.
-divorced
-fired
-on anxiety meds
-dad bod before
BUT IMPROVING 1 DAY & 1 INTENTIONAL DECISION AT A TIME!!
🧱 by 🧱
This last year has been the best of my life & that’s no coincidence.
I follow & interact with champions daily on here & IRL!!💪🔥
Here’s a few: @_CynthiaThurlow I am forever grateful. I have abs & am intentional about what I eat now!
Better yet, my energy levels have
@ZachHomol my man, love you brother!
You have coached me & challenged me to level up:
✅boldness & faith
✅marriage & priorities
✅rest & recovery
✅living with intent in every area!!
I said if I could have one mentor I would choose you over anyone, glad I did :) 🙏💪🔥
I was asked yesterday on a coaching call how I’m always positive :)
This has been an intentional choice & something I’ve worked hard at for years now!
🙏You can’t be grateful & grumpy at the same time!!
🔥I curate my entire life around positivity.
Strategies I use: 🧵
👇👇
❌I never watch sad movies or horror movies.
If I’m watching movie it’s going to inspire or educate me.
❌I never listen to sad music.
All praise music that floods my soul.
I dance & sing often too :)
❌I don’t follow toxic people.
Only Champs that inspire me on my timeline!💪
❌I don’t follow politics or the news at all.
My wife said on Jan 25th something about President Biden & I had no clue he had been inaugurated 🤷
He’s President now?!
Maybe that’s bad,
but I feel I affect the most change in the world from within myself, my home & my community.