3) Get accountability!

@devinmcdermot said

“Its amazing how it affects & destroys almost every aspect of your life.
Relationships, depression & loneliness etc.
Porn affects all these things and people don't realize it.”

I saw this & messaged two of my best friends I was done!
Men seeking other men for help is a taboo thing & shouldn’t be!

I told 2 brothers that night, I never thought I had a problem, it was just occasional, all guys did it...

That was a lie,
It was harmful!

I came clean & told them.
It was a weight off my chest!
I wasn’t alone now!
4) You’ll hate this, but if you want to quit, do what it takes.

Tell your wife or S/O.

It’s not easy.
Real men, honorable ones, like you want to become do hard things.

I told my wife the truth.
I wanted her to be the only woman I ever:
-looked at
-fantasized about
-dreamt of
This was so difficult to bring up.

I didn’t know any porn stars names or have sites I frequented,

but if we hadn’t 👉👌🔥 in a while I went there.
I let her know this & let her know I never would again!!

She was hurt a bit honestly,
But appreciated me for being vulnerable.
For the record, we’ve been together over 7 years.

Even with
✅Corona virus
✅2 babies & a big
✅More change than ever

Since giving up all images & videos, it is better than our honeymoon at my home!❤️🔥

She knows she is my queen!
I only want her forever!

It’s worth it men!!
5) Decide & don’t go back!!

Sounds easy right.

It is!!!

You’re a human capable every moment of choice.

🔥You can decide right now I’ll never view this again & one committed decision can change your entire life!

You aren’t a slave to anything!
Decide right now you are free!!
✅Higher libido
✅Better intimacy
✅More authentic
✅Greater confidence
✅Honoring your faith
✅Integrity to yourself
✅Greater mental clarity
✅Feel healthier than ever
✅More time to WIN real life
✅Your🍆won’t go limp later in life
✅Become the MAN with impulse control
Since stopping I’ve:
-crushed side hustles & written a book
-become a 100x better husband & dad
-my faith has 100x since I don’t hide from God in shame anymore
-my marriage has soared & gone to new heights

I miss it 0%

Today is your day!
Draw your line!!

I believe in you👌🐉❤️

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25 Feb
Transitioning out of full time bank management & reflecting a bit on the journey.

Here’s my favorite story I had with a jerk client a few years ago :)

(I’ve since grown as a human & probably wouldn’t do this today..

but he may have deserved it 😉you guys tell me!)

👇👇👇
This super grumpy gentleman walks in his late 40s.
He came in a couple times week & had a complaint every time.

He had filed a complaint before we had too many handicapped parking spots?

I know you know the type :)

That day he walks in & says I want to speak to a manager!!
I say that’s me man come in to my office.

He proceeds to tell me one of my tellers has been stealing from him for months.

I ask which one & he says,
“That black one, she’s a thief.”

My jaw must have hit the floor.
I had one employee that fit that description.
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18 Feb
My dads a really smart man.

✅Read a book a week for 30 years!
✅Can fix anything!!
✅Socially strong & networks well!
✅Great leader!

He never moved up in his company.

I recently asked him why & the answer he gave me brought me to tears!!

Man I love my dad ❤️🙏
He told me at 25 he had given up drinking for good.

His father was an abusive alcoholic & he was on the same path until he met Jesus at 24 & I was born :)

He didn’t go to college.
He married my mom at 18 to escape his childhood & at 18.5 they were pregnant with my sister.
He had to grow up fast & took a job at an auto parts store at 18.

He was quickly promoted & promoted again to assistant manager by 20.

At 23 he was promoted to manager & running his entire shop!!

The money was good, but the hours weren’t.
55-60 hour weeks.
Read 19 tweets
16 Feb
10,000 teammates I’m humbled & grateful🙏❤️

The community means so much to me!

When I decided to share here I knew I wanted to be authentic & share the real me.
-divorced
-fired
-on anxiety meds
-dad bod before

BUT IMPROVING 1 DAY & 1 INTENTIONAL DECISION AT A TIME!!
🧱 by 🧱
This last year has been the best of my life & that’s no coincidence.

I follow & interact with champions daily on here & IRL!!💪🔥

Here’s a few:
@_CynthiaThurlow I am forever grateful. I have abs & am intentional about what I eat now!
Better yet, my energy levels have
@ZachHomol my man, love you brother!
You have coached me & challenged me to level up:
✅boldness & faith
✅marriage & priorities
✅rest & recovery
✅living with intent in every area!!

I said if I could have one mentor I would choose you over anyone, glad I did :) 🙏💪🔥
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6 Feb
I TOLD MY BOSS LAST WEEK I WANTED TO RESIGN FROM RUNNING MY BRANCH & WORKING 45 HOURS A WEEK! 🗣

🧱6.5 years of grinding in the making!!

I’ll never retire, but now I have 25 extra hours a week to CHOOSE what I spend it on!!

Here’s a thread on how we accomplished this!
👇 👇
First off I say WE accomplished this because my wife has been alongside me from day one!!🙏❤️

So young men,

🔥Marry a woman that loves you & wants to spend TIME WITH YOU not just spend your money!!

It’s the biggest decision you make choosing her!
CHOOSE WISELY!!
Dr Billy Alsbrooks said,
“When your WHY for overcoming is greater than the obstacle, that obstacle ceases to exist!”

The moment I got into corporate management my WHY to get out was strong!

I am grateful for the job:
-benefits
-good pay
-home for dinner
-relationships I’ve made
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I was asked yesterday on a coaching call how I’m always positive :)

This has been an intentional choice & something I’ve worked hard at for years now!

🙏You can’t be grateful & grumpy at the same time!!

🔥I curate my entire life around positivity.

Strategies I use: 🧵
👇👇
❌I never watch sad movies or horror movies.
If I’m watching movie it’s going to inspire or educate me.

❌I never listen to sad music.
All praise music that floods my soul.
I dance & sing often too :)

❌I don’t follow toxic people.
Only Champs that inspire me on my timeline!💪
❌I don’t follow politics or the news at all.
My wife said on Jan 25th something about President Biden & I had no clue he had been inaugurated 🤷
He’s President now?!

Maybe that’s bad,
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🧵
A few years ago we were in a terrible marriage :(

❌Our house wasn’t a home, it was a war zone
❌we didn’t speak days at a time

Last night my wife told me,

“You are my hero, seeing you better yourself every day has made me want to do the same.
Thank you for leading us.” ❤️
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Men,
it all starts with you!!💪

🔥Take extreme ownership of every area & WIN at your family at all costs!

✅Here’s 17 things that helped us that maybe you can find value in:
Everyones situation is unique
but hopefully you can takeaway something from these

🔥We need loving homes & present strong families now more than ever!

1) Prioritize your family above all else!
This means making a CHOICE to
-watch less TV
-work less
-set boundaries with friends
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