Thread by @healthertainer

We women spend too much time talking about our expectations from our partner without making any efforts to even treat our men right.

Men have expectations too. Men ought to be treated well too. Relationship is not about taking, taking and taking some more.

Woman, what are you giving?

You expect love, affection and respect.

No problems.

Are you giving same or just sitting pretty with manicure fingers waiting for romance to fall on you?

"How a man should treat his woman" "Treat your woman like a queen" ... please we need to see more articles on "how a woman should treat his man" "treat your man like a king"

Before i came to this realization, i had to sit down and evaluate my past relationships and interactions with people generally, not just my partners.

Sometimes we are guilty of the relationship killer behaviours we accuse men of.

How often do you call your man?

How often do you remind him you care?

when last did you buy him a gift? When last did you go out of your way to show him he is special? When last did you give him some well thought out threats Like he does to you?

Let’s stop being lazy in our relationships. Women have a part to play too.

If you have a man who does all the right things, his efforts should be reciprocated too.

Do unto others what you wish to be done to you.

It takes two to tango. Selah