Putting perpetrators in the picture: It is time to see the problems of domestic & sexual violence as the perpetrators’ problem. Conference paper by Flood and Dembele, December 2020. xyonline.net/content/puttin…@DLulabele 1/9
Too often, domestic and sexual violence are framed as passive and perpetrator-free: “A man killed a woman” becomes “A woman was killed by a man” becomes “A woman was killed”. “John raped Mary” becomes “Mary was raped by John” becomes “Mary was raped”. 2/9
Even some prevention language, e.g. “Preventing violence before it occurs” is passive, and again perpetrators and perpetration are invisible. Yet violence involves agency: a person uses violence against another person. 3/9
How domestic and sexual violence are framed: If we do not name the agents of violence, then: 1) We do not hold perpetrators accountable. 2) We do not hold communities responsible. 3) We do not address the drivers of perpetration. 4/9
Perpetrators are *made*, not born. If we want to stop making perpetrators, we have to change the social conditions and settings which produce them. Primary prevention involves addressing the drivers of perpetration (and victimisation). ourwatch.org.au/change-the-sto…@OurWatchAus 5/9
So: Keep perpetrators and perpetration in view. Name their active use of violence. “When John raped Mary.” And on prevention, refer to preventing the perpetration of domestic and sexual violence. Preventing violence before it is perpetrated. 6/9
How domestic and sexual violence is measured: We report only on how many women were assaulted last year, not on how many men assaulted women last year. Existing data on domestic and family violence and sexual violence focuses on victimisation. 7/9
How domestic and sexual violence are prevented & reduced: If we don’t know how many people are perpetrating DV and SV and how they are perpetrating it, how can we prevent it? If we don’t know the conditions and contexts for the perpetration of violence, how can we prevent it? 8/9
Putting perpetrators in the picture: Framing DV and SV as only a victim’s problem may reflect a societal discomfort. Just how many men among us have behaved in violent, abusive, or coercive ways? “It is the men we know, like and love who use abuse and violence.” @DLulabele 9/9
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Sexual assault facts: Most victims don’t report. Most delay disclosing or reporting, or never report. 83% of Australian women assaulted didn’t report their most recent incident of SA to police. 4 in 10 didn’t seek advice or help from others. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Incidents are under-reported, under-prosecuted, and under-convicted. Conviction rates for sexual assault in Australia are extremely low. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Victims don’t report or delay reporting e.g. because of confusion, guilt, shock; fear of perpetrator and consequences of reporting; fear that won’t be believed; acceptance of rape myths; difficult legal processes; etc. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Good guys and bad guys. We have to let go of a comforting illusion that there is some bright line between men who rape and men who don’t rape, between the bad guys and the good guys. Many men don’t rape, but do contribute to the problem. feministcurrent.com/2017/11/06/goo… 1/4
We should not let the worst and most egregious cases of men’s violence against women derail the analysis of how a wide range of men’s intrusive and abusive sexual behaviours against women and girls are woven into the fabric of patriarchal society. 2/4
Most men do not rape. But consider these other categories. Men who do not rape but… Would be willing to rape if they were sure they won’t be punished. Will not intervene when another man rapes. Whose sexual arousal depends on feeling dominant and having power over a woman. 3/4
The extent of sexual violence against women in Australia. 1 in 5 women (18% or 1.7 million) has experienced sexual violence (the occurrence, attempt or threat of sexual assault) since the age of 15. In the last year, 148,100 women over the age of 15 were victims of sexual assault
When asked about their most recent incident of sexual assault, just under 9 out of ten women (87% or 553,700) reported they were sexually assaulted by a man they know. For these women, the most common known perpetrator was a former partner (26% or 163,100).
One in two women (53% or 5 million) has experienced sexual harassment (experienced or has been subjected to one or more selected behaviours which they found improper or unwanted, which made them feel uncomfortable, and/or were offensive due to their sexual nature).
Sexual violence: It is comforting, but wrong, to think that only a tiny proportion of men ever commit sexual violence. Studies among men on US campuses find that anywhere from e.g. 1.6% in the last year to 25% by the end of 4th year in college have perpetrated sexual violence 1/4
International studies, similarly, find that significant proportions of men, from 2%, to 10%, to 51%, have ever used sexual violence against a woman. This survey (2011) finds that men’s lifetime reported use of SV was around 9% in most countries. icrw.org/publications/e… 2/4
So why do some men perpetrate sexual violence against women? Because of gender socialisation and gender inequalities, in particular. Because of sexual entitlement and gender-inequitable social norms. Authoritative review of scholarship on perpetration: xyonline.net/sites/xyonline… 3/4
One key reason many men don’t recognise our roles in preventing and reducing rape is that we fail to realise that most rapes by are men known to the victim, in a familiar location, without serious injury, and that rapes are common. Many men have a mistaken idea of rape. 1/6
Men often imagine some crazed guy, in a park, violently raping a passing woman. Men often don’t think of what’s far more common: A man pressuring his date into sex. A man expecting that his wife will have sex whenever he wants to. A man taking advantage of a drunk woman. Etc. 2/6
Men, and to a lesser extent women, often believe, mistakenly, that most rapes are by strangers, in a public place, & involving severe physical force, contribute to the neglect of the reality of sexual violence and to victim-blaming. Report, p. 54: ncas.anrows.org.au/wp-content/upl… 3/6
Sexism in the Academy: An excellent, detailed account of how male dominance in the academy and scholarship is sustained (2019). nplusonemag.com/issue-34/essay… via @nplusonemag 1/15
Women now comprise a bit over half of undergrad students but the proportions decline at every stage of the academic hierarchy “While there were significant gains during much of the 20th century, feminist progress in the academy has slowed and may have already come to a halt” 2/15
Academic ranks are still male-dominated. Banal sexist practices, not ugly misogyny, explain most of the problem. “This durable, unjust structure largely depends on the attitudes and practices of three social groups: male scholars, male students, and male romantic partners.” 3/15