It's all flower crowns and #RespectBlackWomen until we say something you don't like, and then it's all attack everything, even over the most innocuous tweet.
A tweet that makes a joke about my teenage experience with "cancel culture" should not result in the number of attacks I have received from people who misunderstood it. Yet...
A tweet from four months ago about a bad experience I had with Instacart should not have resulted in a young white woman camping out in my mentions for over 4 hours yesterday, yet...
As a Black woman on Twitter who encounters this multiple times a day every single day 365 days a year, I want to show you guys something. Thread:
I saw Gen X trending, and when I clicked the trend, it was all about Fox News calling on us to "cancel" "cancel culture." I thought it was funny because the boomers tried to cancel everything we liked as teens, and so I tweeted this:
For the most part, people got it, agreed, laughed, RT etc Of course, there were some who either willfully or ignorantly misunderstood my point. Those (mostly white) people didn't even try to disagree in a reasonable way. They immediately began calling me names, disparaging me etc
As a homegrown Los Angeles native, I appreciate it for it's accuracy as far as the times and my city is concerned. Shit is so real.
I can literally remember the first time I saw a crack rock. I was 13.
I went to Palms Junior High (now Palms Middle School) in West Los Angeles in what was then one of the whitest neighborhoods ever. A lot of kid got bussed to our school from South LA.
Nah, we gotta discuss how Shirley had the audacity to pick up her rotary dial phone, take all that time to dial Barbara's number and confront Barbara about a no good ass man who was probably lying to both of them anyway
Shirley told Barbara that she found her name and number by going through her "old man's pockets."
Already, we know Shirley is insecure as fuck, likely because the nigga has previously given her reason to be. That's problem number one.
Why she playing on Barbara phone instead of confronting that man? If she was going through his pockets, then we know that this wasn't the first time the gentleman in question has had Shirley out here looking like a gotdamn fool.
So, my Instacart shopper kept marking stuff as "not in stock." Turns out, everything was there, he just didn't know where to look in the store.
Has this happened to anyone else?
I wasn't a bitch about it, and I always tip 30 percent in advance, but come on?
When he eventually found the stuff (he's at my neighborhood store so I told him where to look), I thanked him profusely just cause I don't want to be the irritating customer but also?
I don't want to have the laziest Instacart shopper ever. Like what is the threshold/requirement for them to find items in the store?
How many of you do meal planning/meal prep? What tips can you share with those of us just now dragging our greedy butts to the table?
The problem for me is there are very few foods I want to eat repeatedly during a week. Also, I crave different stuff at different times. Finally, my schedule is super busy, so that's a factor too.
Thank you for all these responses! You guys have really inspired me! I think I'm going to start out by cooking a bunch of boneless skinless chicken thighs (I prefer dark meat, sorry) and chopping them up. I can pull that out and dump it in a skillet with seasonings to make