How to Prevent Trauma from Becoming PTSD: “The good news is that the intensity of emotional pain always reduces with time. This is not just a trite sentiment, as there are neurological studies that have found the ways the brain works to heal emotional wounds. 1/19 #March4Justice
The brain is geared for survival and is always looking for new threats and information, which means old experiences eventually route to the back of the line to direct your attentional resources to what is new and potentially important. 2/19
My clients often respond to this concept by stating: “This can't be true, because I have been in the same emotional pain for so long, and my traumatic event was years and years ago.” 3/19
I explain to my patients that the natural response to emotional pain is avoidance behaviors: trying not to have it, ignoring it, or running from it. However, this keeps the emotional pain active and at the front of the mind. 4/19
Thus, the brain continues to think there is an active threat and these old experiences do not travel to the back of the line. The brain thinks, “If there is not a threat, why are they trying so hard to not think or feel something?” 5/19
By desperately trying not to have emotional pain, we inevitably bring upon longer-term suffering. Studies have shown a correlation with the development of PTSD and avoidance behaviors. 6/19
In other words, the more one tries not to think about a traumatic event, resists revisiting a traumatic place, and avoids contact with any potential triggers of the traumatic event, the more likely one is to develop PTSD. 7/19
The main difference between PTSD and the experience of trauma is important to note. A traumatic event is time-based, while PTSD is a longer-term condition where one continues to have flashbacks and re-experiencing the traumatic event. 8/19
In addition, to meet criteria for PTSD there must be a high level of ongoing distress and life impairment. Studies have compared individuals who have experienced the same traumatic event such as living through a weather-related disaster or terrorist attack. 9/19
A review of the literature on resiliency and recovery following traumatic events identified the following as protective factors for developing PTSD, meaning those who engaged in these did not endure longer-term suffering: 10/19
Continuous contact w/ and support from important people in your life; Disclosing the trauma to loved ones; Identifying as a survivor as opposed to a victim; Use of positive emotion and laughter; Finding positive meaning in the trauma; Helping others in their healing process 11/19
Holding the belief that you can manage your feelings and cope. No one can prevent the pain and suffering tied to the human experience, it is inescapable. We will all experience losses of immense proportions. 12/19
What we can prevent, however, is suffering on top of pain. I sometimes describe this to my patients at stubbing your toe and then being so frustrated that you stubbed your toe that you then punch yourself in the face. 13/19
You can allow yourself to just have pain and not suffering on top of pain by opening yourself up to the thoughts, feelings and sensations associated with loss and trauma. Now this does not mean to flood yourself, or artificially bring up memories and triggers 14/19
randomly throughout your day. Instead, when these distressing thoughts and feelings do arise, welcome them. I know the concept of welcoming pain is a tricky one to grasp. After all, who wants to welcome pain? But pain is there for a reason. 15/19
The pain we feel when touching a hot stove is there to teach us that fire is dangerous to the skin. The pain we experience after living through a trauma is there to guide us in the future and to see what lessons there are to learn that may protect us from future loss. 16/19
One exercise you can practice is to set a timer for each day: you are to open up to any thoughts, sensations, or feelings that are associated with the trauma. This is like setting “office hours,” where all thoughts, feelings, sensations and images are welcome. 17/19
For the rest of the day, when painful internal experiences arise, you can acknowledge the thoughts, feelings or images and gently remind them that they can come back during office hours, but at the current moment there are other tasks you need to be available for.” 18/19
Source: ‘How to Prevent Trauma from Becoming PTSD.’ Michelle Lozano, LMFT. (2017). Bilingual child and family therapist at Lutheran Social Services of Illinois, with placement at John H. Stroger, Jr. Hospital at Cook County Health and Hospital System in Chicago, IL. 19/19
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Narcissism: In Greek mythology, Narcissus was known for his beauty. According to Tzetzes, he rejected all romantic advances, falling in love with his own reflection in a pool of water. 1/30 #March4Justice#EnoughIsEnough
He was so fascinated by himself that, one morning, when he was trying to get still closer to his reflection, he fell into the water and drowned. In his place sprouted a flower bearing his name. 2/30
In Freudian psychiatry, narcissism is an excessive degree of self-esteem or self-involvement, a condition that is usually a form of emotional immaturity (Read my Thread: ‘Why I switched from self-esteem to self-compassion?’). 3/20
“A new type of survivor guilt: The term survivor guilt is usually used to describe emotional distress some people feel after surviving a traumatic event in which others have died, such as a natural disaster or terrorist attack.
It has been identified in military veterans, 1/14
those who survived the Holocaust, 9/11 survivors, and emergency first responders. COVID-19 has certainly been a traumatic experience and has had a profound impact on mental health. Around 1,000 people have died by suicide in Australia since it began and 2/14
modelling from the University of Sydney found suicide deaths could rise by 25% annually for the next five years. During COVID-19 we have witnessed the conventional type of survivor guilt associated with surviving the coronavirus when hundreds of thousands haven’t. 3/14
Disoriented-Disorganized Attachment Pattern and Increased Risk of Further Traumatization (Part 2/2): “Established insecure attachment patterns are empirically associated with a higher rate of traumatic events and subsequent trauma. 1/23
Further trauma has a disastrous impact on affective and socio-cognitive development. Sexual or aggressive exposures of abuse by a parent, for example, are particularly devastating if they are based on a previous relational context of emotional neglect. 2/23
They may promote “identification with the aggressor” and, as a result, may create intrapsychic relational representations of “perpetrators and victims” in rapid reversals. However, this dominant pattern is based on a massive obstruction of general mentalization functions. 3/23
Psychobiology of Attachment and Trauma—Some General Remarks From a Clinical Perspective (Part 1/2): “Early representatives of psychoanalysis argued that the roots of human social motivation are primarily physical and sensory (hunger, sexuality) 1/31
and that satisfaction and/or frustration of these needs lead to the infant’s initial approach to the mother. John Bowlby (1907–1990) strongly opposed this theoretical approach. Based on numerous empirical observations he developed a different theory: 2/31
the infant’s hunger for its mother’s love and presence is as great as its hunger for food. Attachment is therefore a “primary motivational system” with its own workings. Rene Spitz had made similar empirical observations with orphaned children some years earlier. 3/31
How to use ‘The Hand Model of the Brain’ to Explain our Reaction to Stress: Dr. Daniel Siegel’s hand model of the brain helps children imagine what’s happening inside their brain when they get upset so that they can identify and deal with the emotions more effectively. 1/10
First, let’s see what the hand model of the brain looks like: As its name suggests, you need to use your hand for this. Your wrist is the spinal cord upon which the brain sits, your palm is the inner brainstem, and your thumb is your amygdala (or guard dog). 2/10
If you place your thumb in the palm, you’ll form the limbic system. Your other fingers are your cerebral cortex, and the tips of your fingers are your prefrontal cortex (or wise owl). 3/10
Don’t ostracise drugs users – empathise with them: Dr Gabor Maté was recently awarded the Order of Canada for his work on trauma and addiction. The following is adapted from his book ‘In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction’: 1/37 #March4Justice
“From Abraham to the Aztecs, ancient cultures exacted human sacrifices to appease the gods – that is, to soothe their own anxieties and to placate false beliefs. Today, we have our own version of this, as evidenced by the overdose crisis sweeping North America. 2/37
These lost lives are offered up, we might say, for the appeasement of our own false beliefs and denial. Addicted people are victimised by our society’s disinclination to come to terms with the root sources, psychology and neurobiology of addiction, 3/37