"Indoctrination is the reason why a girl child wears pink and play with dolls, while the boy child plays with truck because we were at blank state at birth"
Feminists bring up this indoctrination when we question why women don't do or have interest in certain things.
Let's talk about this indoctrination. shall we?
When it comes to why you don't have interest in politics or other disciplines, you cry indoctrination;
- Your parents are core Catholics, you were born and raised in it but today you're a member of Christ Embassy and your sister
..is a member of Winners chapel.
The indoctrination must be really weak for you to be able to change church.
- From the moment you had your first menstrual period, your mom told you that once a man touches you, you will get pregnant, the church teaches you abstinence till
... marriage, our culture frowns upon premarital sex especially on the part of women but by the time you turned 23years old, you already have up to 3 body count. The wilder ones have already engaged in a threesome.
Indoctrination in the mud!
- Your parents are against you keeping late nights. It's one of our parents' major rules.
This stuck with a lot of people but you the non comformist is now a bat, you know every night club in town and that's perfectly fine because you are an adult but that's not the
.. indoctrination you received.
- Your mom told you to cut your friendship with someone, you asked "why".
I thought you were a computer that runs based on gabbage in and gabbage out system because you were at a blank state at birth, everything you do is based on indoctrination,
..why were you able to question the instruction?
- Cleanliness is next to godliness: that's what your parents taught you, that's what the school taught you but today your boyfriends can taste salt on your breast.
~Every indoctrination your parents and environment imbibed in you
...is to guide you through a peaceful, decent, disciplined, and prosperous life but you broke away from these teachings with ease.
Some of you, your parents wanted you to study a professional course like law, engineering or medicine and surgery. What did you study?
.. "Nigeria, people and culture" (that's not a discipline before you point out).
While some of you are the first graduates in your various families. Meaning your parents have limited information themselves but they want you to be better, you have information they never had.
You have access to Internet, you watch movies; these are where most people from the low class got their inspirations from.
But what are you doing, you are blaming them and your surroundings for the poor career choice you made.
If Nigeria introduces gender studies today, most of
..you will bag PhD on it and still blame others for being poor.
If you were able to break away from all the positive indoctrinations, why can't you break away from the ones you perceived are "negative" for you?
You can't blame indoctrination because we are not computer,
..even computers reject some instructions.
We are humans with brains; we assimilate, analyze and filter informations, reason why we are able to question things. Things we agree with, we keep them. Things we don't agree with, we discard them.
"Indoctrination is the reason why
...women are always after marriage"
Big Fat Lie!!! There are reasons why women are so eager to get married early while men are running away from commitment. Go and find out by yourself.
~ My point is, stop playing the indoctrination card, it's not gonna fly. Either you take
...full responsibility or you look for something else to blame (we will still tackle it sha). Pick a safer option; taking responsibility for your decisions.
- You expect a man to create a safe basket for his wife in case he dies suddenly.
Spoiler alert: That's patriarchy.
- During a divorce, a man should share everything he laboured for 50/50 with a woman whether she contributed to his growth or
..not.
- If the wife is doing pretty good, you encourage her to have a secret account, build a secret house and other establishment because in patriarchal setting, a wife's money belongs to her while the husband's money belongs to both of them.
You are an enabler of patriarchy.
- You are doing good, possibly a millionaire, yet you want to marry a man richer than you, a man who's above your league.
You call it having standards but that's patriachal. Naturally, men marry down while women marry up because women are hypergamous in nature.
Women talk a lot that's why their problems are known and attended to but we can't say the same for men.
Men aren't supposed to "whine" about their problems but unfortunately, their shortcomings are talked about thereby ignoring their sufferings.
Man up, suck it up, be a man...
... has taken many men to their early graves.
Men are not commandos or terminators or immortals the society is expecting them to be, if they were there won't be a high rate of male suicide, depression, we won't have young vibrant men slump and die on daily basis.
So, they need to talk to let the world know that men suffer such burdens because many people are ignorant of men's suffrage, now couple that with the constant demonization of men and boys in the name of fighting for women.
Men suffer abuses as well.
After men send their daughters to school from pre nursery to university, in some cases, masters and PhD level, and then these women worked hard to get to the great height they are in, you will come out and start shouting feminism.
They don't identify as feminists not because
They have no regards for the role feminism has played in women's education and social rights but they can't give feminism the credit for their parents' efforts and that of theirs.
If every successful woman gives credit to feminism, what happens to the men that created...
... civilization in the first place?
Even after everything men have done, feminists are still making demands in 2021, now they still want to take glory for individual efforts.
Feminists are so quick to claim successful women that they contributed not to on a personal level,
Let's talk about hierarchy in marriage.
A woman put up a tweet about the things she learned from her failed marriage. She and her ex-husband dated for 4 years, got married and divorced 13 months later.
She put down a quite number of things that ruined their marriage and
According to her, the major one was disagreement. They argue a lot over decision making, in her words "that's what really broke us".
At the end she said that she's happier, healthier now and looking forward to a better relationship.
From her tweet, you will think that she learnt
her mistake but she didn't. Her advice is, find a partner that you can easily come to an agreement with but that's not all it is to it.
I will explain;
Humans as an entity can not function without hierarchy. Primary school pupils have a class monitor, teachers have a headmaster