Thread by @ArchangelAmongU

04.10.21 HEALING THE PAIN OF PAST LOSSES. Hi, friends. I've missed you as I have been overwhelmed trying to finish up my school program. Today will be my final post for awhile on the topic of "Healing."

For those of you who are new to our community of lightworkers, we have talked at length on healing the traumas of our experiences while serving here on Earth. There is a lot of information available on my website, at loveandlightworks.com to bring you up to speed.

We frequently discuss a book, THE CHRIST LETTERS: CHRIST RETURNS, SPEAKS HIS TRUTH, as a book that has a hidden message to help restore lightworkers to their prior level of consciousness by healing themselves of what they've experienced here.

What Jesus, the Ascended Master, says in this book that he authored himself with the help of a human recorder, is that all of our physical and psychological pain is related to stored dark energy--and we can heal ourselves by identify what we are holding onto.

And today, I want to approach a topic of healing that pertains to both men and woman--but more so to women. I feel like I should discuss this because I only recently discovered stored dark emotion in myself that was causing pain from a particular type of problem--pregnancy loss.

I enrolled in a course this quarter on "Perinatal Loss for Chaplains," and I have found myself coping with old pain I thought was long gone as a result of my own loss of three late term pregnancies. This dark emotion was causing physical problems I could not figure out.

The majority of childbearing women go through at least one pregnancy loss in their lifetime, and many go through the grueling and painful experience of stillbirth. Society expects mothers, and fathers, to immediately get over such a loss, because it "wasn't a real child yet."

Whenever we are pressured into prematurely letting go of a loss, before we have fully grieved and mourned, our healing process is cut short and we store the dark emotion we did not work through. This, in turn, causes later physical and psychological problems.

My own losses were 18 and 20 years ago, but I found myself still sobbing on a daily basis with my class, as I once again had to face my own pain, so that I could be of service in the future to another couple suffering in similar pain.

Those of you who have been with me for awhile have heard the stories about how I struggle whenever I incarnate as a woman on this planet. Being a woman is tough here, and it is a continuing challenge for me to deal with women's issues and pain.

But today, I reach out to all of you who have felt the loss of a pregnancy you so desperately wanted. It is not just the loss of the pregnancy itself, but it is the loss of all of the dreams associated for the child that never comes to be.

Here in Third Density consciousness, we cannot see that birthing contracts we have with other souls who want to incarnate, and who choose us to be their parents for various reasons. Very few of us understand what the reasons are for pregnancy loss. I know I didn't at the time.

When we enter into a birthing contract with another soul, to serve as their mother or father, we retain all of our free agency to change our mind right up until the birth. The same is true for the soul that intends to be the baby. Souls change their minds.

Sadly, we rarely know why a soul changed their mind and decided not to come. We just have to deal with the pain. And that pain is excruciating, and it never really leaves us. We just find better ways to hide it, and then it creates future illness and psychological problems.

If you have experienced pregnancy loss, and you are in the process of healing yourself, I urge you to look throughout your body during meditation, and find where you stored the energy of the pain. We store it in places other than our brain.

Once you find the pain, and even if it is solely in your brain, you can then use the steps found in THE CHRIST LETTERS to neutralize the dark energy, and actually heal from the pain of your past. This is the same thing we need to do for any pain we carry with us from the past.

It's especially important for us, as lightworkers, to support couples in the losses they face, in the grief they suffer, and give them time to really mourn, not forcing our own expectations that they should be miraculously over the loss in a short period of time.

Couples who experience stillbirth and miscarriages often feel extremely lonely and condemned. This causes them to develop a sense of shame and humiliation that they should never have to feel. If they had more support, this likely would not happen.

I expect, with all of the shuffling of souls right now coming in for the Ascension Transition, there will be even more stillbirths and miscarriages, as souls reevaluate their options and change their minds about their journey as a soul. This provides more opportunity to serve.

Perhaps you have never been through this experience--and I hope you haven't. As a lightworker, though, just make note of what I'm discussing today, so you can remember how to help someone, with your service, to recover from such a painful loss.

Please never be afraid to fully mourn a loss in your own life. The grief process is set up to fully release all of the dark emotion of a loss so that we can move forward in joy. Grief is meant to take at least a year or more. We can support each other in this experience.

All of us who agreed to serve on this planet, which is a tough venue for service, knew in advance that we would have these challenges. Knowing in advance did not make the problems any easier for us in our human form, though. Please remember you have never been alone.

All of you who agreed to serve here are recognized for your resilience, sense of adventure, and willingness to serve a soul group, Humanity, which has big problems. Your service is greatly appreciated. You are loved. You are supported, always.

Whatever your own personal struggles have been while you have served here, there is healing you can do for yourself. We can help with someone's healing process, but it has to be the person who makes the decision to heal themselves first.

Much love to each of you, as you move through this human experience. Together, as a team, we will wind up this cycle for Humanity, heal ourselves, and we will get through this experience, and our souls will expand as a result of our service.