One of life's hardest decision to ever make and pain to face is starting again. Once you do it, it can change your life forever. #UpgradeMastery
Sam, sometimes the difference in people is how they are able to overcome the pain of starting again. Life doesn't cut you slacks as you will expect and when things go south, you have no other option but to pick up the pieces starting again.
It may be a relationship, a partnership, an investment, a job, whatever it is once things go awry don't cry too much, wipe your tears and start again.
Many times we fear the outcome so we rather just revel in the past rather than starting again in the present for a brighter future. Interestingly and respectfully so, starting again has its pains but also has ernomous gains.
In the ancient text, several times there were people who had to start again. Case in point was God, after he destroyed the earth with water and spared only Noah's household, he started the world again with them and the rest is history.
Also, Isaac when the well he dug was taken away from him, he started again and dug another well. Even the salvation package comes with full option of starting again.
That's why it says "if anyone be in Christ, he is a new creation old things are passed away behold all things have become new". The end is actually opportunity for a new beginning so be glad when things end because a new start is on the horizon.
Sam, there can be no denying that it will be hard to start again. It comes with its own kind of pains that only those who have experienced it can explain. Especially when you have gotten to a certain level before it ends but that is where discipline and grit comes to play.
You must put together the pieces of what's left and rebuild. It will definitely be painful at inception but as you continue to rebuild, the pain will give way to gains and good memories.
You will actually begin to believe indeed the end was a blessing rather than a curse. You have to figure out a way to personally deal with the pain of starting again and just start. Your story doesn't end here, it is only the sequel so face the pain starting again.
Three simple things about the pain of starting again
1) It definitely hurts
2) It brings a certain level of clarity
3) It heightens your sense of priority
You will always be faced with the dilemma to choose between the pain of regret or the pain of starting again. #DeepThinking
What is lost is gone, what you start again is reborn. #R4HL
The pain of starting again is way less than the pain of living with regret. Starting again has pains but it also has gains. @wisdomcounselin
Count it a privilege and rare opportunity if given the option to start again. The pain of starting again is worth it for a great success story. - Osagie Alex
On the Upgrade side of life, we encourage our Upgrade Mastery Practitioners to never shy away from the pain of starting again. It comes with its own upgrade effect.
The pain of starting again truly shows how much strength of character you have and beliefs you hold.
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Belief System Session: Your true life line is service
One of the greatest act of greatness is service. You will always be great to the degree you serve. #UpgradeMastery
Sam, your true life line is service. Service is the one thing that never goes unrewarded in this life and in the one to come. Those who are truly happy, wealthy and wise are always rendering service.
They are giving away their time, energy, resources, money, all and more through service. They plant trees in whose shades they may never sit under because they realise a life well lived is lived in the service of others.
Sometimes until you really get tired nothing changes. Most people don't get really tired, they just adjust to find comfort with discomfort. #UpgradeMastery
Sam, are you really tired? This seem like a no brainer question but it is really important. You think you are tired but it will amaze you how you can find a way to become comfortable with your own discomfort.
When you begin to make adjustments to what you don't want, then I like to ask are you really tired? When you get tired of being sick and tired, some things begin to change for good.
No one will know what you are going through until you call for help. Call for help is not weakness but strengthen. #UpgradeMastery
Sam, do you feel shy or ashame to call for help? Are you still thinking what will people say, how will they see me, will they even believe me when I call, etc these and more will always hinder you to call for help.
Believe it or not, everyone at one point in their lives will have to call for help. So think it not strange when you have to be that one who calls for help, it is only a phase in life and it will also pass.
1) Sam, do you tell yourself the truth? Because if ever you get to living your truth, it begins with telling yourself the truth. #DevelopYou
2) So many people, haven't come to this realisation hence they continue to live a lie. They are "keeping up with Instagram", a far cry from their reality. #DevelopYou
3) The phrase "show up for the gram" seems to be the other of the day. True if you have got it, please by all means flaunt it. #DevelopYou
Forgiveness is never earned, it is received. Receive forgiveness and move on with your life. #UpgradeMastery
Sam, sometimes we punish ourselves unnecessarily with the hope it will help us earn forgiveness. Sadly, we were raised to earn things, so we also have this mentality that we must earn forgiveness.
It will amaze you to realise that forgiveness is never earned but it is only received. To earn something means you worked hard to deserve it, but interestingly and respectfully so, forgiveness is not one of such things you earn.
1) Sam, don't take for granted little mistake. To you it may be little, to another it may be very grevious. #Strength4Weakend
2) You just never know which little mistake that can turn the tide against you. You just never know. #Strength4Weakend
3) While you try to always do right, sometimes you end up making a little mistake. #Strength4Weakend
4) Sometimes the little mistake can just help jolt you back into reality. The things you never took important becomes crucial and critical. #Strength4Weakend