4years ago, I resigned from a customer care job with one of the telcos. They were paying 70k monthly (bonus inclusive) plus other side attractions like free transportation, 15k airtime and 1.5gb free data.
Same time, Ken - a team mate turned friend also got an offer...
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... as a Data Management Personnel with a small tech firm in V.I, offering 100k net per month.
He's an Info-Tech Graduate of N.D.U plus Msc. UI, but working as a Call Centre Agent in Ilupeju.
He wanted to turn down the offer due to the distance from his house to VI.
He said it won't be easy going from Abule Egba to V.I daily on a salary of 100k.
I disagreed vehemently with him, I said "Guy, you are an I.T graduate, Msc Holder.
This is the best opportunity to relaunch your career".
He said he'll search for a new job.
I stood my ground!
I told him "You'll take this job". I made him realize that I.T is more professional that customer service.
I figured he was scared of taking that bold step because of the side benefits which he seems to be comfortable with.
I just wanted us to leave
I wanted us to move forward
I wanted us to win together!
We've been in the Telco for close to 2years with no promotion, no career development, just picking calls, responding to customers on social media, rinse and repeat.
I promised to give him 10k monthly for 6months, as part of his tfare. I kept to it!
He resigned a month after I resigned.
There are days he'll call and tell me he's tired.
I'll say "Ken, please don't be, just keep moving".
At a point, I started blaming myself for encouraging him to leave but on the other hand, I was glad he was moving forward in his career.
He called me on Friday that he'll be joining Flutterwave next month, I was shocked, I couldn't hold back the scream 😱
We all just need to leave our comfort zone sometimes & make that bold move.
Now here is the part that blew my mind.
So today I called him on video to tell...
.. him about the #RCM2021 masterclass we planned attending together.
He was just smiling while I was talking to him.
Me: Baba Olówó, shey you don pay the 20k for @recallformen Masterclass, it's starting on the 28th o
Me: Guy, wetin dey sup nah, stop this stupid smile.
Ken: Tobi !!!
Me: Wetin🙄?
Ken: I don get another job!
Me: Really? Osheyyyy.. Paddy miii!
Me: Where be the place?
Ken: A College in the US 🇺🇸 as a Graduate Assistant plus partially funded PhD Scholarship.
See ba, I've lost my voice!
When people around me are winning, its a sign that God is in my neighborhood.
May all our silent prayers be answered. 🙏
Thanks for all the words 🙏🙏🙏
Please someone might need this 👇
ReCallForMen Conference #RCM2021 starts on the 28th of this month, you can register for the masterclass via- Recallformen.com/#masterclass
where participants stands a chance to win 10,000 dollars grants.
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Nigeria remains the power house of music in Africa followed by South Africa and others.
In fact if not for the Amapiano beats, South Africa should be part of the others. Naija artistes sef dey kill the beat steady.
Sadly, music seems to be only thing we have to show off. 😔
Anyways, before you start to argue, kindly join the MTV base #AfricaDayConcert on YouTube by 6pm via and see our Naija artist like Teni, Gyakie and other African acts showing what it is to be a true African. 💪
Africa is blessed!!! 🤗
Don't miss it!
The way Focalistic is driving the amapiano beat ehn...
1. IQ is the measure of one's ability to comprehend, solve maths; memorize things & recall subject matters.
2. EQ is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others; keep to time; be responsible; be honest; respect boundaries; be humble, genuine, and considerate.
3. SQ is the measure of one's ability to build a network of friends & maintain it over a long period of time.
4. AQ is the measure of your ability to go through a rough patch in life and come out without losing your mind. It is a new paradigm and can be used to determine who will give up in face of troubles and may abandon their families.
Today, I experienced one of the most unpleasant relationship conversation, this happened between my colleague & his GF.
It was a phone conversation which started at closing hour. It all started with a gentle tone with him repeatedly saying "Mabinu (I'm sorry)".
I'd to... 1/10
...chill for him as we oftentimes go home together in his car.
Earlier this week, he told me he was warned by a prophet not to argue with anyone and since then he has been avoiding quarrels.
At a point on the call, he stopped saying I am sorry & kept quiet. I could hear... 2/10
...the GF's angry voice from the other end of the call.
I signalled to him to drop the call, but he didn't notice.
We moved to the security's office to pick his car key. His countenance has already changed 😡, I signalled to him again to drop the call so he could...3/10
When I was in 200 level, I met Funke who joined my Dept through A-levels. One thing led to the other & we got talking. I started developing a special likeness for her.
She is a natural beauty, nerdy, well endowed (front & back 💯). 1/25
I summoned the courage to ask her out, but i was turned down. She said the best we could be is just friends as she is in a serious relationship.
Few months after, I tried again but still met a dead end. So I decided to drop it & agreed to be in the friendzone. 2/25
We were true friends with no strings attached. Though, we made out once but nothing after that. She was the complete package. She sleeps over in my room without things happening. We've seen ourselves more like brothers & sisters.
To avert yesterday's traffic, I decided to take Okada from Ojuelegba to Ketu. The rider said 2k, but if he is taking 2 people we will pay 1k each.
I decided to pair with another person just to cut cost. Biggest mistake I'll make in 2019. 😭
I should've just paid the 2k... 1/7
...and enjoy the ride without any "hard feelings". Ohhh Gawd 😭 (Tobi, stopeet, don't cry)
The guy that I paired with sat behind me. While in transit, he started sniffing my neck, in my mind I was like "am I smelling ?".
Next thing he whispered "You smell nice"... 2/7
I replied innocently with a smile "ohhh, thank you boss". I thought he was going to stop there. Next thing, guy said "what would it take him to be my real friend?" With more emphasis on 'REAL FRIEND'.
I was confused like "egbámi, from where to where? abelyfesrbrukni??? "..
3/7