I have always had a deep distrust for this and you see it everywhere. Jobs (especially academia), online groups, etc. I know the impulse to gain status this way but it is so messy. If you reject this “Good Samaritan” messiness you risk being ostracized by the group. Worth it.
The first month on the job when someone reaches out to tell you who to hate is the worst.
I read some advice years ago that said senior academics owe new academics a honeymoon period before they enlist them in their institutional battles.
While we are on the subject, I have also long had a policy of releasing people from choosing my side in one of these conflicts. I tell them that if liking me will cost them something, they should absolutely side with the people who hate me.
Never ever fall on your sword for me. But also don’t ask me for shit. That’s the deal. Some of y’all #onhere can attest to that.
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I would write with him. I would tour with him. I would want to hear what he has to say. That is more than I can say for almost all of the folks we consider greats.
Katt is every bit as smart as Dave and arguably has better instincts for Black love. Dave is just more legible...to white people and to aspirationally anxious Black people.
Okay, your resident old nerd is back with another viewing recommendation. This Prideland special on @PBS (my local @MyPBSNC) is good viewing. It documents how LGBTQIA communities are living across the South. pbs.org/show/prideland/
Listen, god bless these lesbian folks in Montgomery but I am worried. Whew. "New Montgomery", if you say so.
I don’t find the turns all that surprising but it is tightly written! Also? White women be drunk as skunks. Sisters I know just aren’t drinking like that.
(It’s evo psych + Bowling alone) I do wonder about race and class differences, though. They get to the social class split in the 19th c. (which is new to me and interesting)!
Not that it means a thing, but Black women in my circles drink more wine as they move up the class ladder but it’s NOTHING like white mom wine culture. Nothing. It’s mostly conspicuous consumption.
This episode of @reelsouth is about Black men who played and worked the (mostly segregated) golf courses in the mid 20th c. South. It is touching. pbs.org/video/muni-lai…
You don't often see Black men of a certain age and class in media this way, not even in documentary media.
It isn't a "big" civil rights story. But it I like small, intimate stories of the Great Migration Generation. This is one of those.
Almost every day on this app someone tells me they disagree with what I tweeted by arguing...for exactly what I just tweeted. And I swear to god it is working against my plan to become a good person.
Me: that's green.
You, a philosopher of impeccable pedigree and moral fortitude: I DISAGREE. THAT IS BLUE AND YELLOW MIXED TOGETHER
A couple of weeks ago I asked for books similar to a named book. A person recommended the book I named.