🙃🙃DEFINITIVE GUIDE TO DOING THE OPPOSITE🙃🙃
(Part 1/3)

SMALL EXAMPLES 🍹👯‍♂️

(followup threads will cover Intermediate and Advanced Examples)

A pragmatic @BowTiedBull Thread 👇
1) TIP THE WAITER BEFORE SERVICE

If you’re new in town and want to find a good date venue then you should try a few restaurants... Solo
Tip 40% before u even start eating and joke with the waiter that u are making sure he doesn’t blow u up when u bring dates in next time

He won’t know if u're joking about this or if u're using self-deprecating humor

U'll show up with a date next time of course
2) TIP THE BOUNCER AFTER U LEAVE THE CLUB

If u know of a few popular venues that have the type of women u like, then it makes sense to develop an “image” at the club

This will range from the bouncers to the bartenders to the actual club/bar owner
Everyone else tries to grease the bouncer $20 just to get into the door

Do not do this

If u are new in town, show up solo and have a good time

Develop rapport with the door guy a couple times during the night on small breaks chatting with him and other girls in the area
When the night is winding down tell him it was great to meet him (use his name of course) and slip him some cash on your way into a cab/uber

He won't forget u
3) PAY CASH TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH THE STAFF

There is nothing worse than watching the bartender/waiter fiddle around for 10-15 minutes trying to find your card mixed in with the masses

Not to mention... You can’t even establish that you’re a solid tipper
Waiting in the queue for the next round of drinks is a foolish move

The biggest error when it comes to nighttime fun is losing momentum

So Pay Cash
4) EVALUATE YOUR LOOKS

Most guys think that it is not manly to evaluate your looks

These are the same people u'll see wearing crew neck T-shirts and Air Jordans out in public

Their loss
You don’t have to dress to kill 24/7/365 as u may be bogged down with work and staying in for the night

But. If you’re going to try and meet people u need to dress to impress

In addition, it would be smart to learn some basics around photography
When people see photos of u it’s nice to know that u're looking slightly better due to 30 minutes of basic research

Besides, any girl u date is going to show your photo to her girlfriends and say “do you think he’s cute?” (Tinder is popular that's why)
5) SHOW UP EARLY

Under no circumstances should u set up a meeting and show up late

This includes dates, interviews and meet-ups with friends

It is common advice that u should “make people wait” for your amazing presence

This is complete nonsense
If u show up early to any venue you’re going to have the first crack at impressing anyone in sight

Besides, if you’re willing to show up late to meet person X, u should just cancel the meeting

U don’t think they are important anyway
FIN!!

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