Interact with people's joy as much as you do with their anger.

Uplift their work when they create, just as much as you tell them its OK to not create due to mental health.

It seems to be a trend here, that sadness, anger, & struggle seem to be what people like interacting with.
But more often than not, actual joy, art, content - those get far fewer reactions or interactions than pain, anger, and mental health struggles.

Celebrate others' joy as much as you feel the need to interact with their pain.
Because as someone who - especially in the past 18 months - finds it a struggle to create many times, seeing things I've worked hard on get little interaction can be so counterproductive to continued creation.

Especially when posts of angry rants, hurts, or sadness get hundreds.
And it definitely isn't just me. I see it happening to friends, or to wonderful creators I'm acquainted with here (whether or not I 'know' them IRL).

So many of my friends and the creators in our space are BRILLIANT. Seriously brilliant. Celebrate their brilliance.
Mind you, I say all this knowing how much of my life is taken up by anger. I admit to anger being one of my most prominent and quick emotions. I don't like that about myself, though.

Just admitting to fault on my end, too.
(because I'll be honest with you. when anger is what you've become so used to defaulting to, you can feel very, very empty when your times of joy feel trivialized.)
And now, I return to your regularly scheduled deflection and ridiculous shitposting.

After a possible nap.

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7 Jun
....so I just saw a headline about the new Loki TV show.

It read, "Loki confirmed as gender fluid".

....Yes. He was.

SEVERAL CENTURIES AGO. FFS HE MADE A HABIT OF IT IN ABOUT HALF HIS STORIES, H*CK

*throws up hands in exasperated history/mythology nerd*
FOR PETE'S SAKE, NO ONE TELL THEM ABOUT SLEIPNIR

THEY MAY LOSE THEIR MINDS AT THIS NEW DEVELOPMENT
*calm voice*

Please note: this statement does not reflect on my abiding delight at Tom Hiddleston's portrayal of our beloved trickster god. He is a joy, and I will fight you if you say otherwise.

BUT FFS LOKI MOM'D A *HORSE*

WHATEVER MAKES YOU THINK A BINARY HOLDS LOKI BACK?!
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Just a smol thread:

There seems to be a bit of a misunderstanding, quite often, about being a personality/brand.

I've been asked a lot if 'The #OperaGeek' is a fake personality or character, since I've said that my public persona can be different from me privately.
No.

1/7
When you are a public-facing artist/performer/creator, you ARE the product. You are what you sell. That is indisputable.

What is ALSO indisputable is you can't keep up a solid brand 24/7 as today's environment requires if that brand isn't also YOU.

People don't like fake.

2/7
Where the misunderstanding comes in is thinking that the entirety of my (or anyone's) life is up for public consumption; that artists/creators aren't allowed to hold back any part of themselves.

That, my hedgehogs, is some grade-A bullshit.

3/7
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You know what is reeeeeaally cool?

Being a woman isn't some limited edition, scant supply, hoard it like hand sanitizer thing.

Understanding that trans women *ARE WOMEN* does not somehow invalidate me as a woman. It just means there are more amazing women.

End.
Of.
Story.
No one is saying you matter less or your womanhood is worth less than anyone else's.

It means that you have the opportunity to hold out a hand & welcome those who haven't yet had the experiences you've had.
How great is it that you can be there with them for it?! H*ckin awesome
It isn't cake.

You won't run out of womanhood by sharing it with others.

Who knows, maybe one of them brought ice cream or wine. WHY WOULD YOU MISS OUT ON THAT SIMPLY TO BE IGNORANT AND SELFISH

SHARE THE UNLIMITED CAKE WITH *ALL WOMEN*

also the wine.
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I guess I also need to add something else that should be common sense:

Someone being an entertainer, etc who you view as popular?

That doesn't mean they don't struggle with mental health. That doesn't mean they can't be depressed.
It doesn't mean they can't have bad things happening in their lives that YOU DON'T KNOW ABOUT BECAUSE EVERY TIME, ALWAYS, SOMEONE SHOWS UP WITH "oh, yeah, I'd LOVE to have YOUR problems, you should try having REAL people problems."

Just freaking don't.
You have no idea how hard it is to be open about their mental health, problems, etc, esp if they've garnered a larger socials following.

Because always, ALWAYS there is someone judging you, who feels the need to tell you you don't have the right or any reason to have said issues
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At,some point, I suppose you have to put enough faith in people that they will judge you by the content of your character, past actions, and words; and not by what someone says about you in attempts to hurt you or stir drama.
Just noticed the extra comma.

I blame the shark in raft.

bruce was trying to eat me for dinner.
2:30AM ADHD-depression-anxiety-fuelled addendum:

I try my best. I try to stand up for others, & for what I believe is right.

I don't expect everyone to agree with me, or even like me.

I know I stumble & fail sometimes, because I relive every time I have done, going back YEARS.
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Oh no I'm back at it again

Oh dear

Buckle up
"No civil police force could hold out against an irate and resolute population. The trick is not to let them realize that. Yes?”
― Terry Pratchett, Unseen Academicals
(Lord Vetenari, ruminating on policing a la Vimes)

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- Terry Pratchett, Interesting Times

#Discworld
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