[THREAD]
If you are teaching autistic children, you must not teach them an oversimplified lie like that if someone smiles, it means they are happy. If you do, you're basically gaslighting them.
You can teach them that smiling is often a sign that someone may be happy.
You can also say that the smiley emoticon is used to indicate that someone is pleased with something.
If you are going to try to make them smile for the camera or smile when greeting people, you really need to sort out the rationale for those things in your own head before you embark on such a mission.
In fact, workshop this with a few people. Include some autistic people in the conversation. Ask whether one should smile in these situations, and if so, why.
A core feature of being autistic is enquiry, i.e. searching for understanding; asking WHY.
Just because some autistic people don't ask out loud doesn't mean they are not wondering about the why.
The whying can be a good thing. It can lead to learning, solving and inventing. Autistic people can be quite disabled, so honing traits like this can be useful for everyone. #optimiseautism
ABA, PBS and PECS is designed to kill the why and focus on the what.
De facto, it also shifts focus to the who: who must I please by doing what, to get relief.
And then there's how much: how much of this must I do before I get a break or reward.
The how is underemphasised too, or it's messy, because most autism therapists are unaware of the obstacles to execution, so their way of teaching gets the how wrong.
This thread provides an example of how some therapists teach autistic children to overcome apraxia, without understanding the real problem.
Much of autism therapy is why-starved. An analogy, albeit an obscure one, springs to mind from the work of @ChanatLucine on malnutrition among Westernised people who aren't necessarily poor.
Therapies like ABA are like an expensive diet which leaves you malnourished and leads to a complex cascade of sickness, fueled by industries focused on the what but not on the why.
Feel free to respond to this thread with your favourite disparaging stories about robots designed to teach autistic children about emotions.
Also, this seminal masterpiece on autism and reading emotions belongs in this thread (and in every learning programme designed to rehabilitate old-school autism therapists, teachers, diagnosticians, researchers, etc.).
I'm doing an emergency fundraiser for @crippledcommie. If you donate $75 or more, I'll compose a song for you using your lyrics or you can tell me more or less what it should say and I will write the words. This is my piano. An example of a song which I composed follows below.
I'll provide an audio-only version of your song as a sound file. If you prefer something instrumental only, that's fine too.
Here is an example of a song which I composed. Ignore the low-res pic, this is just to give you an idea of the music.
You'll find the lyrics of that song below it on YouTube.
Friends, everybody, Americans and others with strong currency, can you PLEASE donate ASAP? This is desperate. People with communication disabilities are among the most vulnerable people in our community.
Please donate here. At our exchange rate, it would take me YEARS to earn this money, but if 100 Americans give $40 each, this will work. Please help out.
"Their parents kept them locked in their room at night for years and years, boarding up the windows, removing the lights from inside, taking away everything but their bed, and all without a sanitary way to relieve themself, for up to about 12 hours at a time."
With the right supports for the various communication disabilities in autism, we could have a lot of nonspeaking autistic people communicating. Here's a thread with approx. 100 nonspeakers who have something to say.
[THREAD] I am going to start curating resources for an Autistic Strategies Network course for autism professionals.
There is an abject shortage of schools for autistic children in my country 🇿🇦, but simply replicating what's already out there will not meet the need. We have to fix up what's currently broken. This course would be part of that, but it's not the whole solution.
The course will be constructed largely around publicly available artefacts, and one of the key learning mechanisms will be exegesis, or, more simply, comprehension tests.
If you have brought a human into the world without explaining your excuse to them very clearly (and by the way, they don't have to agree that it was a good idea), then...
...you shouldn't wonder why at the age of 10 they are being noncompliant to your list of daily and weekly chores or any other expectation you have of them, for that matter.
You can't just say daft things like, "If you don't bath, you will stink," or, "You must do your homework if you want to have a job one day, young lady!"
There are too many assumptions built into these glibly communicated consequences.