Imposter Syndrome is something I've been struggling with for many years.
I've always had a sense of "how am I the person to be doing this?" + "Why are people taking me seriously?"
So here are 3 stories/lessons about imposter syndrome 👇
🎥 1. PTYA
My course, the Part-Time YouTuber Academy, was supposed to be for like 10 people. But the 1st cohort had 350+ people.
I thought I had nothing new to teach as all my systems for YouTube I'd got off the internet. In reality, everyone said the info was groundbreaking.
🧠 Lesson: what's obvious to us can be amazing to others.
@sivers explains this idea as the curse of knowledge: once we know something, we think it's no longer interesting and that everyone must know that thing. This isn't true.
🎭 2. Hospital Pantomime
In my 5th year of uni I helped direct the hospital pantomime, which involved about 100 people. I had no experience doing this sort of stuff, so I felt really self-conscious telling people what to do.
I was constantly thinking "they all know I'm a fraud"
🔦 Lesson: no one is thinking about us as they're too worried about themselves
I was falling victim to the spotlight effect - a psychological phenomenon where we think there's a spotlight trained on us and other people are constantly judging us.
📚 3. Book
When I was first approached about writing a book, my initial thought was "absolutely not". I thought everything about productivity had been said before and nobody would listen to a random YouTuber on the internet about this kinda stuff.
🧘🏼♂️ Lesson: be a guide, not a guru
A guru is someone who says "look at me, I am the expert and have all the answers". Whereas a guide is someone who says "I don't have all the answers, but we're on the same path. I'd like to help". This framing really helped.
🎬 If you're thinking of putting yourself out there in some way and imposter syndrome is holding you back, you might like to check out the full video on this 👉
TL;DR
What's obvious to us can be amazing to others.
No one is thinking about us as they're too worried about themselves.
Be a guide, not a guru.
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When I started my YouTube channel, there was one channel in particular that I took a lot of education and inspiration from - @petermckinnon
Here are the 9 things I've learnt from watching his videos 👇
📖 1. You are the story - when I started on YouTube I thought my life wasn't interesting enough to vlog about. But as Peter says: "your personality is more important than doing fun things like jumping out of a plane". This made me more okay with putting myself out there.
🤡 2. Be yourself - one of the things that's really obvious is how much personality and charisma Peter exudes. He does loads of fun/weird things on camera that his audience love. In my first few videos, I was very stilted, but now I try to exaggerate my own personality quirks.
The 10 cheap purchases that have massively improved my quality of life - a thread 👇
⏰ Physical alarm clock - I used to use my phone as an alarm clock, but I'd inevitably spend hours on Twitter or @Hinge when I should have been sleeping. Since I bought a physical alarm clock, and placed my phone across the room, my quality of sleep has massively improved.
🦷 Electric toothbrush - needs to have a 30 second timer as that's how long you should spend brushing each quadrant of the mouth (2 mins in total). I've been using one for a year and I've noticed a massive improvement in the whiteness of my smile. @taimurabdaal noticed too lol.
A thread on how and why you should learn to speed read 👇
🚲 Reading is like riding a bike - sometimes you want to enjoy the journey. Other times you just want to get to your destination as quickly as possible. Reading is the same: if the book is good I'll read it slowly and take notes. Otherwise I'll just blitz through it.
📚 Treat book like blog posts - I'm not a big fan of treating books like hallowed objects. If you get like 20% through a book and it's not capturing your attention, it's okay to abandon it.
The book that changed my relationship with money - 'Your Money or Your Life' by @vicki_robin
Here's what I learnt 🧵👇
💼 Redefining work
We're not really making a living from work. We're making a dying.
In other words, we waste a lot of energy on our jobs in the hope they'll bring us meaning, joy, and happiness. Even though we can get this by spending more time with friends + family.
💰 What is enough?
"Enough is like the horizon - always receding"
We often associate more money with increased levels of fulfilment. But at some stage the more we accumulate the less satisfaction we get - this is the fulfilment curve.
Procrastination is something even the most productive of us have to deal with on a daily basis. Here's a simple formula to end it once and for all.
👨💻 Action leads to motivation
I used to think you need motivation to get something done, but actually it's the other way around. You get stuff done, and the motivation naturally follows.
As @jeff_haden says: "Motivation is not the cause of action, it is the result of action"
🛑 Stop thinking about motivation
Instead of thinking about motivation, I like to think in terms of discipline. When we are disciplined, we will repeat an action enough so it becomes a habit.
Over the past few years I’ve built a system/framework for remembering everything I read and listen to - here are the 5 apps that make it work 👇
🧙♂️ The magic insight logging framework has 3 layers. 1. Consumption layer - the 3 apps I use to gather information 2. Integration layer - the app I use to bring everything together 3. Second Brain - the app I use to organise my life