Sexual assault facts: Most victims don’t report. Most delay disclosing or reporting, or never report. 83% of Australian women assaulted didn’t report their most recent incident of SA to police. 4 in 10 didn’t seek advice or help from others. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Incidents are under-reported, under-prosecuted, and under-convicted. Conviction rates for sexual assault in Australia are extremely low. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Victims don’t report or delay reporting e.g. because of confusion, guilt, shock; fear of perpetrator and consequences of reporting; fear that won’t be believed; acceptance of rape myths; difficult legal processes; etc. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Most allegations are made in good faith. False allegations are rare. And when they do occur, most are not malicious, but motivated by fear or need for assistance. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Many rapists / offenders do not use physical violence during an assault. Most do not use a weapon. Most offenders have a prior relationship with the victim. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Offenders may groom victims into compliance with assault over time, build trust, etc. Victims may freeze or cooperate rather than try to fight off the offender. Verbal resistance is more common than physical resistance. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Women victims often match their level of resistance to the offender’s level of aggression. Less likely to engage in direct physical resistance if have been sexually victimised before. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Victims may experience unwanted sexual arousal and bodily responses during rape and sexual assault (including erections and orgasm). These do not indicate that they consented. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Injury rates during sexual assaults vary. Some studies find that injuries are rare (4-20%). Others find that they are common (60-80%). And the presence of injuries does not tell us necessarily about non-consent. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Victims, in reporting the assault, may be calm and controlled, numb, or emotional. And victims’ emotional responses may change over time. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Victims’ memories of the assault often are fragmented, confused, and lacking in detail. Typically only segments of the experience are remembered. It's rare to recall lots of peripheral details. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Rapes usually are committed by someone known to the victim. And often in a familiar residential location. Rapes are often committed by family members or boyfriends or husbands. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Victims may stay in a relationship with the offender after the assault. Because of trust, power, or fear. Because they have been groomed into thinking they are responsible or have consented to the abuse. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
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#NotAllMen: Some men respond with “Not all men” when they hear about men’s violence against women. Here are 5 problems with #NotAllMen. 1) Nobody was making any claims about “all men” in the first place. Women *know* it’s not all men. 1/4
2) It’s a defensive reaction, focused on men’s hurt feelings and egos rather than the real, widespread problem of some men’s violence against women 3) It’s selfish. It suggests that how men feel is more important than the fear and concern that many women understandably feel. 2/4
4) It’s a sidetracking of the conversation. The discussion isn’t about the men who *aren’t* a problem. 5) It misses the point: the violence that some men do gives all men a bad name. It makes all men a potential threat. 3/4
Gender inequality: Men are part of the problem and part of the solution. Speech by Michael Flood. 5 points: 1) Gender shapes everyone’s lives. 2) Australia is a gender-unequal society, with a systematic pattern of female disadvantage & male privilege. xyonline.net/content/gender… 1/4
3) Feminism has made a positive difference. 4) Men are part of the problem. Gender inequalities are sustained in part by men – by men’s attitudes, behaviours, identities, and relations. Male privilege is personal: most men have acted in sexist ways. Myself included. 2/4
Men benefit from male privilege, whether we want to or not. From the unearned advantages of an unequal system. At the same time, men pay heavy costs for conformity to traditional masculinity, to our health and relationships. 3/4
Mapping norms of masculinity: New report on people’s attitudes in Australia, ‘Masculinities and Health’. Shows broad support for progressive understandings: Gender is socially constructed. Support for equality. But also support for regressive messages. See vichealth.vic.gov.au/breakingstereo…
Talking about consent is not enough. Knowledge about consent is necessary but not sufficient, for preventing sexual assault. By Ahona Guha, March 8 2021. smh.com.au/national/talki… 1/4
"a significant majority of men who sexually victimise women have some understanding that they are breaching boundaries […] Perpetrators often know that consent has not been given, but ignore this.” 2/4
Sexual assault is not a crisis of a lack of knowledge about consent, but a crisis of *ignoring consent*. We need wider, more frequent community conversations regarding consent. “We need to talk about the entitlement that some boys and men feel to women’s bodies and to sex" 3/4
Consenting to touch I didn’t want: One woman’s exploration of how often women give ‘empty consent’ to touch by men they don’t really want or feel ambivalent about, e.g. because fear something worse. nytimes.com/2021/03/31/mag… 1/4
Affirmative consent laws are valuable, but are implemented in a world in which vast numbers of people (women) are conditioned from childhood to consent to touch we don’t want. 2/4
Story of a "cuddle party", with explicit norms of affirmative consent. And how even in this context, women’s internalised compliance can mean that they agree to touch without a genuine assessment of their own desires 3/4
Why "consent" doesn’t stand a chance against porn culture. By Melinda Tankard Reist. abc.net.au/religion/conse… 1/5
The porn industry is a mammoth dispenser of sexualised violence and misogyny; it is the world’s most powerful sexual groomer. […] the porn industry takes pre-existing harmful codes of masculinity and entitlement and turbocharges them. 2/5
The girls’ and young women’s testimonies from the Sydney petition collected by Chanel Contos provide accounts of young men ignoring consent or of forcing something close enough to consent to give the perpetrator plausible deniability. 3/5