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Sir Dickson

3 Jul, 8 tweets, 2 min read

Went for a friend's birthday and I met this woman whom.Ibe come to respect.

She told us about one 9ja wife her friend was filing paper for but he found out she was planning to divorce him and take over the house when she gets her stuff.

She told him to arrange a holiday to 9ja

Man got to 9ja with the wife and 2 children, hid her passport and after a week said he was going to another state to see a friend, he returned to UK. Her passport and Visa expired there. He stopped the processing.

She has been begging but he said never again.

He let her stay in his mansion in 9ja and sends his brother the children's school fees. They are well taken care of but Oga no wan do again.

She also spoke about a relation of hers whose child was misbehaving. She once heard the child telling the mom "oh mum, you're so dumb."

The mother is saying she doesn't know what to do because the child would call the police. She said she blamed the mother because she didn't discipline the child. You don't touch your child because you are in UK and this is the result.

She told her to arrange a trip to 9ja

She got to 9ja and dropped the child with the grandmother and returned to UK. After a while the child started begging but she told the mother to let her remain there long enough.

Once the child wanted to call police for the grandmother and they helped her call police 😂😂

Police heard what she did and ask for cane to flog her. She started accusing the police of not defending her that they ought to protect her 😂😂

She begged the mom that she was suffering but the mom asked her to stay there since she her own mother is dumb.

She With more Niverian training, the child adjusted, started behaving respectfully and the whole training got into her. She was brought to 9ja at 6 and returned to UK at 11.

She is about 18 now and the mom said she started greeting and respecting everyone.

She now corrects her siblings and teach them how to talk to elders.

The mom has never been this happy. Small child wanted to send the mother into depression.

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