Why consent is not enough: In a social context where hurting women is sexy, consent is inadequate for sexual freedom and equality. Our lives are shaped by social-sexual norms that coercing women is sexy, women are commodities to be used by men, hurting women is sexy. 1/5
Some problems: 1) “Consent relies upon the presumption that people will choose in their own self-interest, or at least in ways that does not fundamentally violate their humanity”, and that is not always true. People may consent to things that harm themselves or others. 2/5
2) Consent precludes evaluation of the act ethically or politically, and instead puts the “blame” for the rightness or wrongness of the act on the person suffering it. 3/5
3) How much violence can consent legitimate? How much harm, pain, and injury is it acceptable to inflict upon someone before it is no longer justifiable? 4/5
Our society has widespread social-sexual norms of the normalisation of pain, eroticisation of violence, and instrumentalisation of women. We need more than a minimalist principle of consent to challenge these. feministcurrent.com/2014/06/25/why… 5/5
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‘Not my experience’: Liberal MPs say they haven’t witnessed sexism. (BUT see my further comments.) smh.com.au/politics/feder…
Men and sexism: Men are less likely than women to recognise both interpersonal sexism (in derogatory statements about women, sexually harassing behaviours, etc.) and institutional forms of discrimination. Drury, in full text here: xyonline.net/sites/xyonline…
Among men, many simply do not recognise, or indeed defend, existing gender inequalities. Men have been shaped by lifetimes in a gender-unequal world, so that sexism becomes normal, taken-for-granted, and invisible. ‘Men Make a Difference’ report p15, here: xyonline.net/content/men-ma…
Sexual assault facts: Most victims don’t report. Most delay disclosing or reporting, or never report. 83% of Australian women assaulted didn’t report their most recent incident of SA to police. 4 in 10 didn’t seek advice or help from others. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Incidents are under-reported, under-prosecuted, and under-convicted. Conviction rates for sexual assault in Australia are extremely low. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
Sexual assault facts: Victims don’t report or delay reporting e.g. because of confusion, guilt, shock; fear of perpetrator and consequences of reporting; fear that won’t be believed; acceptance of rape myths; difficult legal processes; etc. aic.gov.au/publications/t…@AICriminology
#NotAllMen: Some men respond with “Not all men” when they hear about men’s violence against women. Here are 5 problems with #NotAllMen. 1) Nobody was making any claims about “all men” in the first place. Women *know* it’s not all men. 1/4
2) It’s a defensive reaction, focused on men’s hurt feelings and egos rather than the real, widespread problem of some men’s violence against women 3) It’s selfish. It suggests that how men feel is more important than the fear and concern that many women understandably feel. 2/4
4) It’s a sidetracking of the conversation. The discussion isn’t about the men who *aren’t* a problem. 5) It misses the point: the violence that some men do gives all men a bad name. It makes all men a potential threat. 3/4
Gender inequality: Men are part of the problem and part of the solution. Speech by Michael Flood. 5 points: 1) Gender shapes everyone’s lives. 2) Australia is a gender-unequal society, with a systematic pattern of female disadvantage & male privilege. xyonline.net/content/gender… 1/4
3) Feminism has made a positive difference. 4) Men are part of the problem. Gender inequalities are sustained in part by men – by men’s attitudes, behaviours, identities, and relations. Male privilege is personal: most men have acted in sexist ways. Myself included. 2/4
Men benefit from male privilege, whether we want to or not. From the unearned advantages of an unequal system. At the same time, men pay heavy costs for conformity to traditional masculinity, to our health and relationships. 3/4
Mapping norms of masculinity: New report on people’s attitudes in Australia, ‘Masculinities and Health’. Shows broad support for progressive understandings: Gender is socially constructed. Support for equality. But also support for regressive messages. See vichealth.vic.gov.au/breakingstereo…
Talking about consent is not enough. Knowledge about consent is necessary but not sufficient, for preventing sexual assault. By Ahona Guha, March 8 2021. smh.com.au/national/talki… 1/4
"a significant majority of men who sexually victimise women have some understanding that they are breaching boundaries […] Perpetrators often know that consent has not been given, but ignore this.” 2/4
Sexual assault is not a crisis of a lack of knowledge about consent, but a crisis of *ignoring consent*. We need wider, more frequent community conversations regarding consent. “We need to talk about the entitlement that some boys and men feel to women’s bodies and to sex" 3/4