Empathy is a highly technical skill using expert levels of situational awareness, non verbal communication +cross cultural knowledge taking into account inequities based on intersections of marginalization of gender, sex, queerness, race, Socio-economic background to name a few.
Empathy has been routinely disregarded directly out of its association with women cause mysogyny.
Empathy is a super weapon. Without it all communication is ineffective and useless.
If you cannot care to understand the WHY behind a thing, you cannot authentically exist in a dialogue with the other.
In design/software there is a concept of User Stories.
They form the bulk of task management communication.
A user story in game development might be:
“As a player I want to have a map so that I can orient myself”
Empathy is required to have any sense of cohesion in team environments.
Empathy is non-negotiable.
Every problem in every organization originates from a deficit of empathy.
All conflict can be mitigated and defused by surgical application of empathy.
This is not a “soft” skill - it is a hard technical skill that capitalism struggles to quantify.
Every single organization would do well to start investing in internal reporting systems that monitor the health and quality of empathy in leadership.
Without empathy, leadership is not. That simple.
My capacity for and fluency with Empathy is the primary reason for how I got my job in games and why I was hired.
I am not an “entry level” Producer. These skills are from a lifetime of survival against adversity and abusive power structures as well as my hundreds of teachers.
If you want to thrive in any role, you must develop your Empathy.
It is pivotal to healthy relationships, personal growth, healing and learning.
With proper application of empathy there is nothing that can stop you from attaining any goal you might have.
Empathy is the ability to acknowledge a shared reality and how the impact of that reality is different for another person.
A well designed game calls to empathy at many levels. That’s what can help cement the player experience.
Properly applied empathy in economy design can make the difference between a game studio failing or not because of its ability to understand the needs and desires of its players.
Anyways, I do need to go to bed, but I’ll end with:
Video games are the greatest vehicle for empathy. Empathy is possibility in story telling.
Be excellent to each other. 💖 🌻
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So I love how I mentioned to the Etsy seller that I was a trans woman and that I was excited to actually build my wardrobe and suddenly her Etsy shop has been taken down.
- Carve out an hour out of each month for mentorship in your field for marginalized people of color, gender and women who you already know or through platforms like these:
Remember it is absolutely ok and necessary to unplug.
This news can retraumatize and you can absolutely step away and take care of your immediate needs.
We won’t let this news die down. I won’t at least.
Please care for yourself and if you need emotional support please DM.
If I can listen, make space, witness or just talk about anything else with you I’m 100% here and available. Bandwidth might be tight as I’m in the middle of prepping for a cross country move to NYC but I can make time.
DMs are open.
This industry IS changing. There are more women owned studios than ever before.
I as a public hyper visible pre-HRT trans woman of color got her first game industry job just this April 2021 which was full time, salaried with stock options and wasn’t lowballed.
I was heartbroken, depressed and feeling entirely hopeless.
Was borrowing $$$ to be able to pay rent well into March + this was deeply triggering in itself as I’ve survived through repeat housing insecurity from the day I was born and my mom slept on the street.
Fast forward to July 2021, I’ve got a full time job in the game industry making more money than I’ve ever had, full benefits, perma remote, am involved in multiple exciting projects around the game industry and will be moving back home to Brooklyn NYC.
This is hot on the heels of 8 years of minimum wage jobs in seattle, constant daily micro aggressions and a general feeling of lack of direction and focus in life.
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I can't adequately describe how terrifying it is to tweet that as someone who's just moved, been out of work for months, left an abusive relationship and in general has just lived a live on the margins of actual economic survival.
To all my Trans family, I'm sorry it took me this long. To every man that's ever joked about queerness with a hint of violence, I remember you.