::: Most dangerous place emotionally for a woman :::
You can get his attention, he will flirt with you, sleep with you, but he wont make a commitment
You are stuck on sexual limbo
A spining plate
It can go on for YEARS
How do you identify and avoid this situation?
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You can get his attention, he will flirt with you, sleep with you, but he wont make a commitment
You are stuck on sexual limbo
A spining plate
It can go on for YEARS
How do you identify and avoid this situation?
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Just because he will pay attention to you doesn't mean he wants to keep you
Getting attention can be intoxicating, especially for women, and even more so if the man is attractive
So intoxicating that many women will trade their compliance for even a crumb of a mans attention
Getting attention can be intoxicating, especially for women, and even more so if the man is attractive
So intoxicating that many women will trade their compliance for even a crumb of a mans attention
Trading your body or years of your life for a mans occasional attention is a terrible deal
Men are very capable of having no commitment, meaningless sex for years with the same person
Giving yourself to him is NOT going to make him commit, might even have the opposite effect
Men are very capable of having no commitment, meaningless sex for years with the same person
Giving yourself to him is NOT going to make him commit, might even have the opposite effect
How to avoid the FWB or eternal GF trap:
1) Do not give intimacy without commitment
This is old advice, obvious to our ancestors, much forgotten today
Behaving like a wife with a man who is not your husband is not going to get you a husband
Protect your body, heart & mind
1) Do not give intimacy without commitment
This is old advice, obvious to our ancestors, much forgotten today
Behaving like a wife with a man who is not your husband is not going to get you a husband
Protect your body, heart & mind
2) Be humble and recognise that you are way easier to manipulate than you think you are
A lot of slick men know how to push a womans buttons
If you let such a man in he will take everything and give you nothing but heart ache
Do what has always worked, get help and mentors
A lot of slick men know how to push a womans buttons
If you let such a man in he will take everything and give you nothing but heart ache
Do what has always worked, get help and mentors
3) Openly communicate your needs
Do this with caution, do not show up on your first date with a powerpoint outlining your expectations for the future
But be willing to speak openly about what you want as trust and intimacy builds
That assumes that you know what you want
Do this with caution, do not show up on your first date with a powerpoint outlining your expectations for the future
But be willing to speak openly about what you want as trust and intimacy builds
That assumes that you know what you want
4) Set and defend your boundaries
What are your boundaries?
Go write them down, make a list, it will clear your mind
Know them, defend them, avoid people who persist in disrespecting your boundaries
Also avoid men who have no boundaries, they are dangerous, not in a good way
What are your boundaries?
Go write them down, make a list, it will clear your mind
Know them, defend them, avoid people who persist in disrespecting your boundaries
Also avoid men who have no boundaries, they are dangerous, not in a good way
5) Get help to vet men you are interested in
Most people are terrible at vetting partners
Having a professional outside opinion from sone who has seen it all is going to help you avoid the extremes of pessimism and irrational optimism
Help is WAY cheaper than a divorce
Most people are terrible at vetting partners
Having a professional outside opinion from sone who has seen it all is going to help you avoid the extremes of pessimism and irrational optimism
Help is WAY cheaper than a divorce
6) Follow a proven dating system
Fortunately @limitlessleila and I have recorded our Dating With A Purpose system
Thousands of dollars worth of coaching generously given away for only $120
This is the fast track to getting the relationship you want
gumroad.com/l/datingmethod
Fortunately @limitlessleila and I have recorded our Dating With A Purpose system
Thousands of dollars worth of coaching generously given away for only $120
This is the fast track to getting the relationship you want
gumroad.com/l/datingmethod
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