Now, with all these cameras focused on my face
You'd think they could see it through my skin
They're looking for evil, thinking they can trace it, but
Evil don't look like anything
Evil don't look like anything
PS: this was the first song that I learned on my ukulele that wasn't in a random uke song book.
1) The song itself is *chef's kiss* 2) The lyrics? 🔥 3) Okkervil River songs like this are so perfect for harmonizing
My other favorite Okkervil River song - and the second I learned on the uke:
There is no key, there's no plan; I discovered that
And, truly, I don't think you'll find a happier man
ADHD tangent aside (sorry)
It's easier to believe that those who do horrible things are monsters, to other them in ways that lend to supporting capital punishment and incarceration.
Reality is scarier.
The reality is that we've each done harm to others, on purpose or on accident.
We're capable of doing it again, intentionally or not.
Us or our loved ones might be the villains in someone else's story.
It's easier to think that our folks aren't capable of that horror.
People do not want to hear that someone who did such good was also capable of harm like that by misrepresenting situations.
It breaks this mindset we've created of us vs the baddies.
Example: a well known patient activist died earlier this year. She's missed by many and did important work...
She also started a wrongful crusade based on misinformation that led to me getting attacked from someone with 14k followers including getting death threats.
People also do not want to hear that, say, the creator of the s p o o n theory is the person who sicced her 14k followers on me without reading shit.
The thread I share from back then is disjointed because threads weren't really a thing yet IIRC.
As I pointed out earlier, this us vs them mindset is also the one upholding the incarceration system, that keeps us from abolition and transformative justice.
We do not care to hear how harsh incarceration is, believing it to justly relate to someone's innate evilness.
Slavery didn't end. It just shifted to the incarceration system.
"Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction."
Those in prisons have no constitutional rights. They can be and are forced to work tough jobs without the the protections while earning cents on the dollar.
When they get out, jobs they may have worked aren't available to them as felons.
These folks face barriers at every turn, from a lack of employment and housing options to being unable to get various forms of assistance to not being able to vote.
PS: As someone who worked for an independent living center, I need you to also know that prisons WILL TAKE AWAY WHEELCHAIRS or other assistive devices from disabled folks as they go to leave prison.
They do not connect you with resources on how to get a new one.
The Madison-area Urban Ministry conducts re-entry simulations to show you how difficult life can be post-incarceration.
I don't even know how to put into words what the simulation was like.
I couldn't get a job because I didn't have my social. To get my social, I needed my license which I also didn't have.
By the end, I was back in prison because I couldn't do anything due to systemic issues.
I encourage everyone who hasn't been close to someone incarcerated to participate in one.
But don't do it as some acting exercise, showing up with Starbucks in hand.
Really pay attention.
Other ideas for allyship and unlearning this othering?
- Read more about what othering does and how it harms
- Get involved with efforts like mutual aid, combating stigma, and battling oppression
- Follow folks doing this grassroots work
I experience a lot of Little-ness when my POTS or other conditions are acting up. If I'm honest, a part of me is always Little - it just adjusts due to all the factors.
I shouldn't have to avoid certain spaces because of this.
Why has @UofUNeurology assumed patients with #POTS may not also be providers or otherwise involved in healthcare?
Or seemingly taken into account that we often have to help others get diagnoses and, therefore, should be getting this same info?
Why don't I get access to sessions like "Headache, Chronic Pain, and Joint Hypermobility in Dysautonomia" but instead get "Non-Pharmacological and Lifestyle Treatment Approaches for Dysautonomia" when patients are already gaslit with that enough?
“I think it should not be allowed for a sporting event to host in a country that criminalizes against basic human rights,” Daley said. “So, that is going to be my mission now to change that.”
2. But he also said this:
“I think it’s really important to try and create change, rather than just highlighting or shining a light on those things... make it so that the countries [where it's] punishable by death for LGBT people are not allowed to compete at the Olympic Games.”