Sort of a Pregji-adjacent thought, but this one definitely doesn't have to be mpreg:
I think wangxian have a tiny bit of Friction™ during the first few months of their baby's life, because LWJ absolutely insists that someone MUST get up and go to the baby when they're crying.
I think wangxian have a tiny bit of Friction™ during the first few months of their baby's life, because LWJ absolutely insists that someone MUST get up and go to the baby when they're crying.
WWX will go to the baby! He'll check on them! He'll cuddle them, check their diaper, assess whether they're hungry! He'll make sure they're not sick or hurt!
But if the baby is just crying for the sake of crying, he's OK with letting them try to cry it out for a while.
But if the baby is just crying for the sake of crying, he's OK with letting them try to cry it out for a while.
LWJ is much more of the mindset that if the baby is crying, at least one parent (preferably both parents!) MUST be attending them.
And I think they both struggle to bridge that gap.
And I think they both struggle to bridge that gap.
There are probably a few moments where they're both uncomfortably aware of their own Childhood Trauma, which is the third player in this particular conflict.
I dunno. I think they're both incredibly loving and attentive parents! They just manifest their love a bit differently.
I dunno. I think they're both incredibly loving and attentive parents! They just manifest their love a bit differently.
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