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Adam Lane Smith

@TheBrometheus

9 Nov

Worried you'll lose your job? Want to replace your job? Or just make an extra $50k a year as a side business?

Here's an easy, step-by-step method to financial independence. gum.co/4000kbiz/

Yesterday I coached a young man through this system. He went from feeling hopeless to being excited to act. He sent me his new business plan last night, less than 10 hours after our call.

When you've got a clear system, everything falls into place. Life becomes simple.

This system works by showing you what skills you possess and how to leverage those into new income streams. Right now you're giving all that power to your employer, who is using you to generate income streams. You could be doing this yourself instead and triple your income.

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Adam Lane Smith

@TheBrometheus

30 Oct

Reminder that “your kids should leave home at 18” is a psyop by the central banks to make 10 ext. family members pay 10 rents/mortgages, 10 sets of utilities, 10 car payments, and 10 of every item needed for a home, plus entertainment and stress relief to cope with being alone.

Broken attachment made Boomers think it’s normal to get rid of your family and gain space.

That broken attachment makes Gen X and Millennials say, “I’d never want to live with my awful family!”

Broken attachment has damaged generational living.

When a family lives together you can open family businesses and have each kid manage a shop. That preps them with financing and leadership and logistics training while enriching the whole family. That’s practical and safe at the same time and doesn’t destroy generational wealth.

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Adam Lane Smith

@TheBrometheus

23 Oct

I would never be friends with a man who cheats on his wife.

If he has no morals with his closest partner who loves him and gives him absolute trust, why would I believe he’d treat me better?

He wouldn’t. He lives only for his own pleasure, not for honor.

Men who have cheated in the past and turned their life around? I can respect that because it takes guts to own your mistake.

Men with weird marriage arrangements? That’s not “cheating” because they’re not lying. At least they’re open and honest.

The liars? They’re just liars.

Any man who wants to claim that cheating on a beloved partner who trusts you means NOTHING about your morals is a man without morals or honor.

If you see this argument, block them. They’re a sociopath who thinks morality is determined by convenience. They’ll hurt you for profit.

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Adam Lane Smith

@TheBrometheus

21 Oct

If you’re interested in the neurology of attachment, this paper is fascinating. ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/P…

Based on cursory reading, it’s possible that vasopressin is responsible for bonding while under stress. Oxytocin helps us bond during love and happiness which would not activate under stress. But vasopressin can bond to oxytocin receptors and help us connect when stressed.

Vasopressin is also more prevalent in male mammals, especially social mammals. That may explain why men bond better during shared stressful activity like war while women bond better during emotional vulnerability.

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Adam Lane Smith

@TheBrometheus

30 Sep

Men build structures. Women build networks.

When men in a family build safe structures around women, women can build self-correcting networks that heal wounds and keep the family intact and healthy.

Weak men force women to defend the structure instead of nurturing the network.

When I worked as a family therapist, I taught attachment to the women in a family first. They drank it up like a sponge and immediately applied it to start fixing the system. But that work was slowed when the men in the family stayed weak and disengaged. Strong men sped it up.

The more energy the women were able to focus into nurturing their self-correcting networks, the healthier the family became. That required men to step up to build and defend the structures. So the women felt safe and had plentiful resources for their self-correcting networks.

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Adam Lane Smith

@TheBrometheus

28 Sep

Women ask all the time, "Where can I find a good husband?"

Where would you want him to be when he's not with you? Answer: With his family. You won't find him at a bar or social event.

You can't get into his family alone. But you've got a network. Ask them to matchmake for you.

Be clear about expectations. And make sure you ask your healthiest network members to search for you.

They'll have your best interests at heart. They'll know the man and his family in advance. They won't set you up with problems.

This also adds pressure for him to respect you.

If you're searching through strangers, you're looking for the straw in a needle pile: a lot of little pricks out to hurt you.

Don't look at strangers. Ask your trusted network to find a match for you. They'll do the work for you in advance.

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